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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #11  June 19,2011, 7:41pm
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This can be a definite drawback to listing these activity levels.
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This activity level thing can cause miscommunication. I do not like it at all.
Amen to that, unfortunately we are in the definite minority here.
 
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In the last three days, every one of my daily matches has not been active in a week or more, and 13 of them have not been active in over three weeks! This had never happened before. I didn't close them all immediately, as was my first inclination, fearing that it is yet another weird EH technical glitch.
 
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In the last three days, every one of my daily matches has not been active in a week or more, and 13 of them have not been active in over three weeks! This had never happened before. I didn't close them all immediately, as was my first inclination, fearing that it is yet another weird EH technical glitch.
That doesn't bode well...
My guess is that your Active Matches are petering out, and so they are sending you the remaining Matches...

One thing that I find weird about this new Time Stamp stuff...

I had always assumed the eHarmony would tailor their daily Matches to include mostly Active matches, but toss in a couple inactive ones each day as well.

My thinking behind that is, that:
1) They want to extend the amount of "live" Matches you would get to as far as they can. Thus, instead of 7 "live" matches, they would send you 5 + 2, each day. Most people wouldn't notice that 2 of their Matches were "dead", yet this would extend the Active Matches out by an extra day each week.
2) They want to still try to get those inactive members to come back. If these inactive members see they get Communication with paid members once or twice, (or more) a week, this might get them to come back and pay up.


What I am finding is that they rarely send me anyone that is Inactive beyond Today or Yesterday.
Which means I am going to eventually run out of Active members, and then they will have no choice but to send me nothing but inactive members.
I think I would be more irritated by that, rather than getting 5 active + 2 inactive each day...
 
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ScottK wrote :
That doesn't bode well...
My guess is that your Active Matches are petering out, and so they are sending you the remaining Matches...

One thing that I find weird about this new Time Stamp stuff...

I had always assumed the eHarmony would tailor their daily Matches to include mostly Active matches, but toss in a couple inactive ones each day as well.

My thinking behind that is, that:
1) They want to extend the amount of "live" Matches you would get to as far as they can. Thus, instead of 7 "live" matches, they would send you 5 + 2, each day. Most people wouldn't notice that 2 of their Matches were "dead", yet this would extend the Active Matches out by an extra day each week.
2) They want to still try to get those inactive members to come back. If these inactive members see they get Communication with paid members once or twice, (or more) a week, this might get them to come back and pay up.


What I am finding is that they rarely send me anyone that is Inactive beyond Today or Yesterday.
Which means I am going to eventually run out of Active members, and then they will have no choice but to send me nothing but inactive members.
I think I would be more irritated by that, rather than getting 5 active + 2 inactive each day...
Interesting points and I suspect you are right.
 
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ScottK wrote :
That doesn't bode well...
My guess is that your Active Matches are petering out, and so they are sending you the remaining Matches...

One thing that I find weird about this new Time Stamp stuff...

I had always assumed the eHarmony would tailor their daily Matches to include mostly Active matches, but toss in a couple inactive ones each day as well.

My thinking behind that is, that:
1) They want to extend the amount of "live" Matches you would get to as far as they can. Thus, instead of 7 "live" matches, they would send you 5 + 2, each day. Most people wouldn't notice that 2 of their Matches were "dead", yet this would extend the Active Matches out by an extra day each week.
2) They want to still try to get those inactive members to come back. If these inactive members see they get Communication with paid members once or twice, (or more) a week, this might get them to come back and pay up.


What I am finding is that they rarely send me anyone that is Inactive beyond Today or Yesterday.
Which means I am going to eventually run out of Active members, and then they will have no choice but to send me nothing but inactive members.
I think I would be more irritated by that, rather than getting 5 active + 2 inactive each day...
I agree because when I first started the account I would get 5,6,-10 , matches...periodically I would have one in there that was inactive for a week then all of a sudden it was 2-3 weeks. Eharmony suggested that I expand or readjust my "wants" I did this and I was still getting ones that weren't active for a bit. I don't want to have to compromise on everything I want just to get a match. I thought that when I set this up I left myself pretty open to alot of things yet I am just not seeing the results. It's very disheartening to think that of the millions of people in the world I can't seem to have any luck in communication with anyone. I don't think I am a bad looking person (def not arm candy) but I think I have a great personality and am like I said pretty open to alot of things, yet, alas no matches. I don't feel to confident with EH so far...may have to cancel and go to another site
 
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