Remeber you could list why you closed a match


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Badgerboy is offline Badgerboy Post #21  June 17,2011, 7:02am
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Discerning the common practice on an internet web site might a contradiction in terms. I was one of those guys who archived rather than closed until I was in a LTR. It appeared to be the common practice among people I was matched with, so I did it too.

My only comment about getting feedback from a close, is to know if the match was closed because of logistical reasons. Distance/started or in a relationship/(eek) other. Not interested is not interested, but can't is another category that is not mean spirited.

OTOH, matches where we had made a significant time & energy investment, took the time to communicate the reason for the close. And, again, I did the same thing when I entered a relationship.
 
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