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BabyYoda is offline BabyYoda Post #21  June 2,2011, 12:42pm
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B.Y.: We have had several iterations of our Relationship Questionnaire over the years. If you don't mind my asking, I was wondering about how long ago you originally took the questionnaire?
Approx. 6 plus years ago. I originally signed up at that time and was on it for a brief moment, then took a 3 plus year hiatus. Two years ago, I rejoined, revamped my profile but did not retake my questionaire until yesterday.

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My thinking is that if it was fairly recent, you might not see much of a change, but if it's been quite some time, you might. Just an hypothesis.
It has been a while. So, yes, I felt it was time to adjust my questionaire to be matched with those who are more compatible to me now rather than 6 plus years ago.

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But even if you don't see any dramatic change, you know our most up-to-date matching system is now working for you.
Hmm..I think my concern is whether my matches believe that they are being matched with compatible individuals as well as myself. I don't expect your matching system to work wonders, but I don't want to be matched with people who I am least likely to date either. I do want to be matched with individuals who I feel I can have a successful encounter with in the end.

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And looking forward to your comments about your updated Personality Profile.

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Ok, cool. Well, we shall see what happens.

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B.Y.: We have had several iterations of our Relationship Questionnaire over the years. If you don't mind my asking, I was wondering about how long ago you originally took the questionnaire.

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Approx. 6 plus years ago. I originally signed up at that time and was on it for a brief moment, then took a 3 plus year hiatus. Two years ago, I rejoined, revamped my profile but did not retake my questionaire until yesterday.

It has been a while. So, yes, I felt it was time to adjust my questionaire to be matched with those who are more compatible to me now rather than 6 plus years ago.
Hi BabyYoda,

Yes, a person can significantly evolve/grow/change in that span of time; so if you felt that that was the case for you, I'm glad that you'll be retaking the Questionnaire.

Waiting with bated breath to hear about the results!

All the best,

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eH_Advice_Host_Renee wrote :

B.Y.: We have had several iterations of our Relationship Questionnaire over the years. If you don't mind my asking, I was wondering about how long ago you originally took the questionnaire.



Hi BabyYoda,

Yes, a person can significantly evolve/grow/change in that span of time; so if you felt that that was the case for you, I'm glad that you'll be retaking the Questionnaire.

Waiting with bated breath to hear about the results!

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Thanks. I shall see what awaits me. *crosses fingers*

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I have taken the questionaire in all of its incarnations and have compared them. I do see differences. I was most anxious to retake it last time because I had met a great match here on eH and we had a wonderful two years! He was not at all what I thought I was looking for, but he turned out to be the one. When life got in the way (another topic for another time) I came back and filled out the questions with that match in mind and did find that I was getting matches similar to him...

I think we need to tweak our lives often to keep a fresh perspective. I know the questions really make me stop and think... really think and that is helpful to me as well. I try to see how others perceive me.

BY, I think you will see some differences now and be sure to update this topic so we can cheer you on!
 
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At least they *let* you re-take it. I've asked twice now and the answer is still no. I've turned off matching until I decide if I want to cancel my subscription early or wait it out and see if the third time will be the charm.
 
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