joesch is offline joesch Post #1  May 16,2011, 11:21am
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Hi I just joined EH and I've been working on my profile. Hoping some of you experienced members would give me a little insight in to my profile. I've gone through a few revisions but don't worry. Tell it to me straight. I can take it!

I put some notes at the bottom.

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What are you most passionate about?

I'm really passionate about helping people out with technology and making sure they're not getting taken advantage of. So that's what I do for my work every day.


How do you typically spend your leisure time?

I like to tell the stories of the day while exploring new places. Whether it's a restaurant or a mountain top. I love working on cars, motorcycles and just about anything else. You name it I've broke (and hopefully fixed) it. I love figuring out how stuff works. That also goes for what makes people really feel loved.


Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?

If I had to pick someone besides my parents it would be an old boss from about ten years ago. He taught me you can be happy and productive even though other people aren't liking the work. Looking on the bright side has been my way ever since.


What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?

I am seeking someone who talks and gets out the things that are on her mind. I think that if you can really communicate with someone on a trusting level then life is a lot more fun. I believe in really getting to know people.


Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

I can be really excited for what seems like no reason. I have a lot of energy so sometimes I get a comment like, "How much coffee have you had?" And the answer is always, "None!" (Especially in the morning meetings)


What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?

I use a lot of technology (phone, ipad, etc) day to day, like anyone, but I also look forward to the end of the day when I can set all of that down and have time with myself and friends.


What are five things that you "can't live without?"

First aid / survival kits
Internet (I know!)
Spare money
Running shoes / Outdoor gear
Toys (car, motorcycle, bicycle, computers, legos)


Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?

A while ago my mom gave me a book, Krishnamurti, to read while I was working abroad. It's a biography on the early years of the modern philosopher, J. Krishnamurti. He's was a very challenging and inspiring figure and the book kept me thinking all the way through.


Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?

A real smile is power! I find new friends every day, and get to see the world as it really is: A wonderful place where we can learn, share and help each other along.


What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?

Waking up every morning
Honest people (the kind that will return your lost wallet)
All the things I have been through that make me better ever day


The four things your friends say about you are:

Optimistic
Happy
Romantic
Energetic


What are three of my best life skills?

Maintaining a network of close friends
Making improvements and repairs around the house
Volunteering my time to causes I care about

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Just so you know, I'm a bit of a nerd so I do want that to come through. I'd much rather come across as myself than disappoint someone! When I'm not in a relationship I work a whole bunch more so I'm hoping this will help connect me with some good honest people. Thanks for any feedback!
 
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Faraday is offline Faraday Post #2  May 16,2011, 12:09pm
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I think your profile is great- I would totally intitate communication with you. I like your leisure time activities, I can get a visual when I read it.

The only thing that I would hesitate about it is, the "how many cups of coffee have you had?" paragraph. I worry that you'll be like that oxi-clean commerical guy.
 
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I agree with Faraday, great profile, I would totally 5 question you if you showed up in my matches, in fact one of the problems I have found on eharmony is the lack of "geeks" that have shown up in my matches. But I also agree about the coffee paragraph. Maybe instead of that say something like 'I can get really excited for what may seem like no reason at all but I am just an enthusiastic person who can find something interesting about even mundane everyday things, like a morning meeting'
 
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You profile is decent---but at your age an issue will be profile pictures.

There is a certain aspect of women you will turn off because you come off as a guy who just plays games and if not works on cars and never reads.
 
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I feel the coffee thing might be questionable too.

I think what I am trying to say is that I am a morning person who loves to wake up to a smile. I like to go-go-go all day. I would like to hint at it in a way that doesn't make it seem like I do not also enjoy the occasional sunday morning cuddle on the couch.

So I scrapped it and came up with this:

Q. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

A. I keep a pretty excited energy level and smile a lot in the morning. Sometimes when I get to the morning meeting, to some people, I can seem am a little too happy to be there. But I practice an attitude of gratitude and I can't help but love what I do.

I am finding these advice forums to be so helpful thank you all for the insightful replies!
 
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why not just say, " I am a morning person and often wake up with a smile. I like to keep my days busy...that doesn't mean, however, that I wouldn't mind the odd slow Sunday morning."

Something like that anyway. I totally get what your saying and you want a fellow high energy person...it's important to convey it.
 
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