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Does this button ever do what it says or is it like those staples easy buttons where nothing happens?
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:20 pm
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It does for me, but usually only once a day. The clock seems to reset at midnight Pacific time.
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:23 pm
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LOL...Not happy with your matches LawyerDan?
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:31 pm
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kim9610 wrote :

LOL...Not happy with your matches LawyerDan?
they are all too slow I need more lolol. How can 22 people not respond and not close out. I think EH is giving me nothing but nonsubscribers. I even changed my preferences to everything on earth just to get more cycling through. I hit the button and it never gives me more matches. Ahhh the humanity!
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:34 pm
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I have never had it work for me. I get some bs message about being patient, that the little elves are working feverishlyat matching all 29 of my apparentpeculiar dimensions, but don't despair, new and excitingmenare joining in droves on a daily basis, so check back tomorrow .....blahbity blah......
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:35 pm
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It works once a day for me as well, and I only get one match when I do it. Oh well!
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:36 pm
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I was told by an eHarmony rep that using the "find matches" button actually reduces your chances of being matched, because it overrides the system's 24 hour search, and the system is often times not likely to do a thorough matching process in the minute or so that it takes to do the "find matches" search.
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:44 pm
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miss_cinderella wrote :

I was told by an eHarmony rep that using the "find matches" button actually reduces your chances of being matched, because it overrides the system's 24 hour search, and the system is often times not likely to do a thorough matching process in the minute or so that it takes to do the "find matches" search.
That is just fantastic. I hit that $#%#ed button at least 10 times a day.
- June 22nd, 2008, 05:46 pm
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I get a refill every morning before I get ready for work-at about 5:30 AM. Any other time, I get the "be patient" message. Sometimes I get 5 new matches-most times 1.
- June 22nd, 2008, 06:37 pm
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I think I read this in a post on here somewhere, some people said that they've gotten at most 7 at a time (a limit perhaps). It depends on how many people have signed up for the day and whether or not they "matched" you in those 29 dimensions.


And what I've realized is that they come in spurts, if I remember I click the button, if not, I just let the matches come.


Good luck!
- June 22nd, 2008, 07:26 pm
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