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hello im looking for my matches
- July 4th, 2009, 05:09 am
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yeah i've gotten 3 matches 1 lives close to me, the other two live on the other side of the country.....
and she's pretty! she isn't responding i've done everything.....i understand people have lives but it's been 2 weeks! i'm busy as heck between working FT in the summer and my music, even in the wee hours of the morning i get online.....

it stinks sometimes! guess you got to tough it out.
- July 4th, 2009, 04:26 pm
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I was told by an eHarmony rep that using the "find matches" button actually reduces your chances of being matched, because it overrides the system's 24 hour search, and the system is often times not likely to do a thorough matching process in the minute or so that it takes to do the "find matches" search.
Thats not true for me. I get 7-9 a day regardless of how many times I hit that button.
- July 4th, 2009, 07:41 pm
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