What do you think about this on my profile?


Reply
  • Page 2 of 2
  • 1
  • 2
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
kitty8903 is offline kitty8903 Post #11  February 13,2011, 9:09pm
kitty8903's Avatar

Newbie

Joined: Jan 2011

Posts: 22

See profile

You all are awesome. Thanks so much for your thoughts.
 
  Reply With Quote
SteveManchesterEngland is offline SteveManchesterEngland Post #12  February 14,2011, 2:31pm
SteveManchest…'s Avatar

is too happy

Power Poster

Joined: Dec 2010

rainy uk

Posts: 5,026

See profile

kitty8903 wrote :
OK, here is what I have changed part of my profile to:
Some additional information I want you to know:

I have two wonderful kids, ages 3 (boy) and 5 (girl). They have a loving father, aunts and uncles, and both sets of grandparents, so I'm not looking for a father or a family for them.



My question is... what do you think when you read this?

The reason I changed this section is because I read something similar on one of my match's profiles, and I thought it was considerate of him to share that he wasn't looking for a replacement mother for his children. I'm hoping that all of my matches are matched up with me because they have selected "YES" in the children-living-at-home setting.

Thanks for the feedback!
All you need to say is:-

"They have a great father so I'm not looking for a replacement!"

You should not list all the relatives available as it looks defensive! and putting "loving" before father is not appropriate - too much irrelevant information.
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply
  • Page 2 of 2
  • 1
  • 2


Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
found an ex-bf's online profile - interesting lies... scully98 Dating 46 January 21,2012 10:26am
What NOT to say in my "About Me" Profile SarcasticInSeattle Using eHarmony 38 July 19,2011 10:21pm
Please Review New Female Profile (Thanks) & Rates of Communication Hope4Joy Using eHarmony 25 May 1,2011 8:28pm
Profile Review: Five months of failure, please help! Larch Using eHarmony 29 February 1,2011 10:56am
Personality Profile: is it grossly incorrect? Sparkles56 Using eHarmony 29 November 1,2010 6:08pm

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Exit interviews are highly recommended in many dating books and in other life strategy books. They are very effective. I think he would answer honestly to the some point. I know that is horrible and ... ” –  biking_girl

Join the “Exit interview after unsuccessful date” discussion

“And I'd also add that while a successful stable job down the road and a solid income is helpful in attracting a woman, it's no guarantee that finding love will be easy for you. I know plenty of men ... ” –  boschimsp

Join the “Should I ever date in college?” discussion

“I think if someone says they can't meet you for weeks, they are lukewarm interested. Even if he were truly busy with a project, he'd be able to drop you an email or a text here and there. I took ... ” –  Carole1520

Join the “Did he poof?” discussion

“ Yes, illegal aliens aren't treated as illegals. lol OP, trust your gut. A few months ago, I met a guy on match, who said his membership was expiring, and gave me his IM so we could chat. I ... ” –  Carole1520

Join the “Match from another country...is he a "fraud"?” discussion

“I thought this thread was about exercise. Positive OP though...nice to see.” –  Breezy1

Join the “It's a matter of fit” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 7:38pm.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0