Difference between Introduction and Getting to Know You


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Ok I am hoping I can communicate this properly. I noticed that if someone viewed my profile, the communication stage changed to "Getting to Know You" and if the match didn't view me, then it stayed at "Introduction". I sent some questions to a match and I know they viewed my profile since he showed up in my who has viewed me option, yet, he still remains as an "Introduction"... does that mean he archived me? Or is there a glitch? I didn't know if there was some new thing I missed now...
 
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Chicagogirl8 wrote :
Ok I am hoping I can communicate this properly. I noticed that if someone viewed my profile, the communication stage changed to "Getting to Know You" and if the match didn't view me, then it stayed at "Introduction". I sent some questions to a match and I know they viewed my profile since he showed up in my who has viewed me option.
That's pretty much my understanding of it. Doesn't it also change when you're the first click on the profile?

I know some people used to use this to determine if matches were active or not.

Personally I only concern myself with who responds and who hasn't. The other stuff is nice to have, but people seem to drive themselves nuts with all of it, and what it means.

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he still remains as an "Introduction"... does that mean he archived me? Or is there a glitch? I didn't know if there was some new thing I missed now...
I would say it's a glitch..

As far a archiving goes, you really never know if someone has or hasn't
 
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Go to the profile.........it will say : waiting for response or whatever the next step or close match. If he closed you you'll find him in your archive folder.........if he archived you.......when you send something ,it shows up in his communicating folder. Then he can close you.........Makes no sense?.......but that's it...lol.....
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Ok I am hoping I can communicate this properly. I noticed that if someone viewed my profile, the communication stage changed to "Getting to Know You" and if the match didn't view me, then it stayed at "Introduction". I sent some questions to a match and I know they viewed my profile since he showed up in my who has viewed me option, yet, he still remains as an "Introduction"... does that mean he archived me? Or is there a glitch? I didn't know if there was some new thing I missed now...
 
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Normally once I send questions they move from New to Communicating; however I have two rogue matches that never responded to first questions, never moved out of new, and I can't archive them! They are stuck in 'New Match' limbo, LOL.
 
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Thanks to all of you for your helpful feedback! Thank goodness for these boards...
 
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