lovelyash is offline lovelyash Post #1  January 9,2011, 4:46pm
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I was hoping to get some feedback regarding my OC situation. So, I've been communicating with this really great guy. We got through GC in a day and a half and have been using OC really often (I'm talking twice a day) for about three weeks. We live quite a distance away from each other so "coffee dates" aren't that feasible right now, but we both are understanding of the distance situation. Our OC rapport has been great and it appears there seems to be a lot of chemistry. Anyways to my dilemma, I responded back to his email about a week or so ago and have not heard anything back since. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt and hold out a bit longer or should I just close him out? I'm feeling torn so I need some outsider's opinions.
 
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EH_user is offline EH_user Post #2  January 9,2011, 4:52pm
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I think it's always worth keeping them open. There is no need to 'close' a match. It's not like you get more matches if you close a certain number, so why not just keep it open and see what happens. Though it does sound like he's falling off the earth as many do....
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #3  January 9,2011, 5:12pm
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I agree. Leave it as it is. You never know what has happened. Subscription ran out. Has moved and cable isnt hooked up yet. Who knows? Just move on to your next interest. You may be pleasently surprised one of these days by him again.
 
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