Opethfan777 is offline Opethfan777 Post #1  January 2,2011, 7:47am
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Hi, I have been lurking the boards for a couple weeks now and finally decided to join. I have been using eHarmony for about a month now. I was wondering is it normal for people to just poof on you?

I can only seem to get to about step 2 and then my matches never respond past that. Also, what is the deal with people never closing profiles? I see them look at my page, update their profile but never answer the stage one questions.

Anyway, just stopping by and saying hello.
 
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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #2  January 2,2011, 7:58am
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Opethfan777 wrote :
I was wondering is it normal for people to just poof on you?
Yes it is..

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I can only seem to get to about step 2 and then my matches never respond past that.
Mainly because step 3 requires a bit more effort. It could also be a variety of reasons. non-paying, meet someone- take your pick..

Do you have pics posted on your profile? Also you may want to submit you profile for a review. There could be some things in your profile that are turning your matches away..( see profile review instructions top of the forum)

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Also, what is the deal with people never closing profiles? I see them look at my page, update their profile but never answer the stage one questions.
The deal is -you have been archived. When eH downgraded to this folder last year. It gave people an excuse not to close, beacuse it is an extra step. They archive you and leave you to rot.

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Anyway, just stopping by and saying hello.
Welcome to the boards.
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Opethfan777 is offline Opethfan777 Post #3  January 2,2011, 8:08am
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Yeah, I do have pics up on my profile. Perhaps I will offer my profile for review and let you all pick it apart.
 
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