jonibgirl is offline jonibgirl Post #1  November 4,2010, 7:22am
jonibgirl's Avatar

Newbie

Joined: Nov 2010

Posts: 2

See profile

I'm trying to figure some of this out.I was told you can hide your profile so when you look at someone they don't know you did.I can't find that setting.It really bothers me that every time I click on them they know I've looked at their profile.I feel like they think I am a stocker.I can't tell who Joe Blow is From Tin Buck Two is until i click and see his picture.There has to be a better way with out deleting everybody. Thanks
 
  Reply With Quote
TheThinker is offline TheThinker Post #2  November 4,2010, 7:43am
TheThinker's Avatar

Just what you want to be...you will be in the end

Power Poster

Joined: Aug 2009

The Island of Rhode

Posts: 6,429

See profile

I think that is only if you have the older version of EH, which may still have the features. There are more than few things that EH has gotton rid of in the new version.
A new match recently contacted me, and over a period of a couple of days of GC, her name still does not show up as her viewing me.(I'm assuming she has the older version software)

FWIW-
I have the new version which doesn't have that option.
 
  Reply With Quote
Harryoss is offline Harryoss Post #3  November 4,2010, 7:56am
Harryoss's Avatar

chooses his words carefully. (Most of the time!)

Veteran

Joined: Sep 2010

Los Angeles, CA (SF Valley)

Posts: 1,176

See profile

jonibgirl wrote :
I'm trying to figure some of this out.I was told you can hide your profile so when you look at someone they don't know you did.I can't find that setting.It really bothers me that every time I click on them they know I've looked at their profile.I feel like they think I am a stocker.I can't tell who Joe Blow is From Tin Buck Two is until i click and see his picture.There has to be a better way with out deleting everybody. Thanks
I guess the real question is: Why does this bother you? If it's someone you're not interested in, and therefore won't contact... Do you think they are going to be crushed and heartbroken over a random stranger looking at their profile? And if it is someone you are contacting, Isn't the probability of them being flattered that you keep looking at their profile MUCH higher than them feeling like you're a stalker?

But ya, Anonymous views are gone now, apparently. I was never around for it to start with, but I probably wouldn't have used it in the first place even if I was.
 
  Reply With Quote
Wiseman2 is offline Wiseman2 Post #4  November 4,2010, 8:03am
Wiseman2's Avatar

Power Poster

Joined: May 2009

Posts: 6,322

See profile

You can't hide your views.
They will only see your most recent view in that past week.

So, say you viewed Joe Blow, 10 times today. 9 x yesterday 8x day before etc.
What he would see is:

Who's viewed me :
Today:
jonibgirl
ladygaga

Yesterday:
oprah
janedoe

2days ago:
cher
plainjane

And so forth.

Not all the other previous views.

Some tips:
Send communication to everyone who interests you, never ice breakers.
Nonpaying and expired profiles are more common , they cannot respond, so no response usually means this.

Good luck

jonibgirl wrote :
I was told you can hide your profile so when you look at someone they don't know you did

It really bothers me that every time I click on them they know I've looked at their profile.

I can't tell who Joe Blow is From Tin Buck Two is until i click and see his picture.
 
  Reply With Quote
OlderButWiser0549 is offline OlderButWiser0549 Post #5  November 4,2010, 9:14am
OlderButWiser…'s Avatar

Power Poster

Joined: Oct 2010

Delaware County, PA

Posts: 7,227

See profile

Wiseman2 wrote :
You can't hide your views.
They will only see your most recent view in that past week.
I think it's the past day, not the past week. I have numerous entries from the same match in my Who's Viewed Me list that are only a couple days apart-- including one woman who keeps checking out my profile every 2-3 days but who's been sitting on my Stage Three questions w/o answering them for the last 2 weeks.
 
  Reply With Quote
jonibgirl is offline jonibgirl Post #6  November 4,2010, 11:17am
jonibgirl's Avatar

Newbie

Joined: Nov 2010

Posts: 2

See profile

Thank you. Much appreciated.
 
  Reply With Quote
Wiseman2 is offline Wiseman2 Post #7  November 4,2010, 12:34pm
Wiseman2's Avatar

Power Poster

Joined: May 2009

Posts: 6,322

See profile

Hmm?...This is what eH states:
wrote :
Note: only your most recent view will be displayed to your match.
Would be nice to know in what time frame
OlderButWiser0549 wrote :
I think it's the past day, not the past week. I have numerous entries from the same match in my Who's Viewed Me list that are only a couple days apart-- including one woman who keeps checking out my profile every 2-3 days but who's been sitting on my Stage Three questions w/o answering them for the last 2 weeks.
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply


« I cannot stay login. | Using eHarmony | Is it just me ??? »
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
Question about cancelling on e harmony takeeharmonytocourt Freedom of Speech 4 October 13,2009 11:32am

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“ Where's the other boot?” –  Breezy1

Join the “She stared at my feet. Is this normal?” discussion

“Exit interviews are highly recommended in many dating books and in other life strategy books. They are very effective. I think he would answer honestly to the some point. I know that is horrible and ... ” –  biking_girl

Join the “Exit interview after unsuccessful date” discussion

“And I'd also add that while a successful stable job down the road and a solid income is helpful in attracting a woman, it's no guarantee that finding love will be easy for you. I know plenty of men ... ” –  boschimsp

Join the “Should I ever date in college?” discussion

“I think if someone says they can't meet you for weeks, they are lukewarm interested. Even if he were truly busy with a project, he'd be able to drop you an email or a text here and there. I took ... ” –  Carole1520

Join the “Did he poof?” discussion

“ Yes, illegal aliens aren't treated as illegals. lol OP, trust your gut. A few months ago, I met a guy on match, who said his membership was expiring, and gave me his IM so we could chat. I ... ” –  Carole1520

Join the “Match from another country...is he a "fraud"?” discussion

“Stop humping my leg.” –  Breezy1

Join the “Comment to win a FREE month of eHarmony!” discussion

“I thought this thread was about exercise. Positive OP though...nice to see.” –  Breezy1

Join the “It's a matter of fit” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 7:20pm.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0