extremeRacer is offline extremeRacer Post #1  November 2,2010, 12:29pm
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Bachelors degree
Smokes - Never
Drinks - About once a week
Christian - Non-Denominational
Wants kids, no kids at home

Most passionate about:
Making life meaningful by living authentically, loving deeply, laughing easily and often, having fun with free-
spirited abandon, communicating honestly, seeking to improve oneself daily, taking impeccable care of ones
health, passionately pursuing dreams and goals, having a real purpose and sage intent, and focusing on the
things that truly matter. Or somethin' like that.

Most important thing looking for in a person:
A genuinely good woman with a spiritual base. A woman who is as hardcore athletic as me: Lean & VERY
driven by DAILY health/fitness. Who makes me laugh and isn't self-conscious or too traditional or
conservative acting, i.e. is NOT reserved / non-stuffy. A "not TOO churchy" woman who loves God but is
relational also and accepting of opposite-faith people. One who would be down for anything silly that we can
come up with. Fun, playful and accepting who doesn't feel the need to act like a grown-up ALL the time. I
LOVE life! It can be so much fun. It's important to be with someone who loves life, too!!!

Two rules in life: (1) Don't sweat the small stuff. (2) Everything is small stuff."

Most Influential people:
Both my dad and my step father have been influential. Both are hard working,
honest, ethical men with a high level of integrity. Both are "Jack of all trades"
that can pretty much do anything and fix anything and I am the same. There is
nothing that can not be accomplished with enough effort, perseverance and
MAYBE an owner's manual. 8^)

Most thankful for:
- Success: The freedom and ability to balance work, play and relationships.
- Spirituality: Having a strong foundation, a desire to understand God
and to think beyond the superficial to discuss thoughts, desires, and
ideas with an open mind, in order to continually grow.
- Creativity: To encourage laughter, love and uniqueness. Nothing beats
laughter or love.

Best life skills:
Achieving personal goals.
Making improvements and repairs around the house.
Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis.

Wishes MORE people would notice:
I'm actually the opposite of what people think I am. Many believe me to be some energetic, outgoing social
butterfly who has wild and crazy adventures... okay... maybe SOME of that is true. ;^) But I do have
another side that has adapted well to every day life. I do have periods where one would think I was a
"homebody". I'm either an introvert who LOVES people or an extrovert with a deep inner side. Take your
pick.

Can not live without:
* Affection, "I love you's," edification, adoration
* Good sleep, de-stressing, and relaxation~!
* Faith, Jesus, prayers, depth, discussing ideas
* Creativity, open minds, and original thinking
* Laughter, fitness and good dark chocolate

First thing people notice:
I am a very real and genuine person, love to give and receive affection and I am quick to find common
ground with others. The eternal optimist... I have been told that I have an "infectious laugh" and I'm always
smiling. Though that can't possibly be true? Oh, shoot, it probably is. I just realized I'm smiling right now.
Dangit. I'll tell you what, though... the mood of the people I'm with can sho' bring me down. People can get
subtly bludgeoned by negativity & energy vampires. That's why it's good to be with someone who matches
your outlook on life and your general disposition.

Additional information:
I like eccentrics. I have even been accused of being eccentric! I am a free-thinker. I have been holding out
for the RIGHT fit. I'm VERY unique, so you have been warned! ;^) Deep down I am an artist and I chase
my dreams! If a little bit of outlandishness and being different doesn't suit you, then I won't either.

Spend leasure time:
- I ride motorcycles both on and off road.
- Tinkering with and fixing things.
- If there's competition, a winner and a loser, count me in. If an adrenaline rush is involved so much
the better! That is why I race cars and play competitive volleyball.
- Dancing. I love to dance. There is nothing like the feeling of gliding across the floor in sync
with both your partner and the music.

Last book:
I have to read a lot of technical material to keep up with my job and to teach classes. When I get to
read for pleasure I like to escape wit books written by Lawrence Sanders. I recently read "The Worst
Hard Time". It is about the Dust Bowl and how it impacted the people in the area at the time. Currently
reading a book given to me written by Paul Shaffer, "We'll Be Here For the Rest of Our Lives". A light
and entertaining read. Just finished reading "The Shack". I didn't think I would enjoy a fictional
story about meeting God but I was surprised. Of course I have read many relationship and self-improvement
books.

Friends description:
Optimistic
Intelligent
Ambitious
Easy-Going
 
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The idea is right here , expressing yourself, revealing a bit about your lifestyle / personality. Try to keep this briefer,and leave out the all capitals. Try not too have so much caffeine when you decide to edit.

extremeRacer wrote :
Most important thing looking for in a person:
A genuinely good woman with a spiritual base. A woman who is as hardcore athletic as me: Lean & VERY
driven by DAILY health/fitness. Who makes me laugh and isn't self-conscious or too traditional or
conservative acting, i.e. is NOT reserved / non-stuffy. A "not TOO churchy" woman who loves God but is
relational also and accepting of opposite-faith people. One who would be down for anything silly that we can
come up with. Fun, playful and accepting who doesn't feel the need to act like a grown-up ALL the time. I
LOVE life! It can be so much fun. It's important to be with someone who loves life, too!!! Wow, this is such an over-the-top-demand list most women will run ! Tone this down to "fit, enjoys exercise and spiritual", they'll get the idea without all this screaming it out loud

Two rules in life: (1) Don't sweat the small stuff. (2) Everything is small stuff." What does this have to do with anything?

Wishes MORE people would notice:
I'm actually the opposite of what people think I am. Many believe me to be some energetic, outgoing social
butterfly who has wild and crazy adventures... okay... maybe SOME of that is true. They will picture you at spring break or on the "Jackass" show

Can not live without:
* Affection, "I love you's," edification, adoration Are you looking for fawning fans..you can't live without being adored..........what?
* Good sleep, de-stressing, and relaxation~!
* Faith, Jesus, prayers, depth, discussing ideas
* Creativity, open minds, and original thinking
* Laughter, fitness and good dark chocolate

First thing people notice:
People can get
subtly bludgeoned by negativity & energy vampires. That's why it's good to be with someone who matches
your outlook on life and your general disposition. Sounds Pollyanna.. and negative ...skip it.

Additional information:
I like eccentrics. I have even been accused of being eccentric! I am a free-thinker. I have been holding out
for the RIGHT fit. I'm VERY unique, so you have been warned! ;^) Deep down I am an artist and I chase
my dreams! If a little bit of outlandishness and being different doesn't suit you, then I won't either. Well this will narrow the selection, for sure, my way or the highway...very defensive and makes you sound like the nutty professor
 
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extremeRacer wrote :
Male
IT Manager
Bachelors degree
Smokes - Never
Drinks - About once a week
Christian - Non-Denominational
Wants kids, no kids at home

Most passionate about:
Making life meaningful by living authentically, loving deeply, laughing easily and often, having fun with free-
spirited abandon, communicating honestly, seeking to improve oneself daily, taking impeccable care of ones
health, passionately pursuing dreams and goals, having a real purpose and sage intent, and focusing on the
things that truly matter. Or somethin' like that. For some reason this reads like something copied out of an inspirational book and ultimately is kind of generic. A very pretty way of saying that you don't really have any true interests.

Most important thing looking for in a person:
A genuinely good woman with a spiritual base. A woman who is as hardcore athletic as me: Lean & VERY
driven by DAILY health/fitness. Who makes me laugh and isn't self-conscious or too traditional or
conservative acting, i.e. is NOT reserved / non-stuffy. A "not TOO churchy" woman who loves God but is
relational also and accepting of opposite-faith people. One who would be down for anything silly that we can
come up with. Fun, playful and accepting who doesn't feel the need to act like a grown-up ALL the time. I
LOVE life! It can be so much fun. It's important to be with someone who loves life, too!!!

Two rules in life: (1) Don't sweat the small stuff. (2) Everything is small stuff."
Yeash...why not just cut to the chase - fat ugly chicks need not apply. You have to be HOT, a perv in the bedroom and still presentable to mom and dad. Seriously - the questions is ONE quality so stick to that. More is not better in this case.

Most Influential people:
Both my dad and my step father have been influential. Both are hard working,
honest, ethical men with a high level of integrity. Both are "Jack of all trades"
that can pretty much do anything and fix anything and I am the same. There is
nothing that can not be accomplished with enough effort, perseverance and
MAYBE an owner's manual. 8^) Nice and cute.

Most thankful for:
- Success: The freedom and ability to balance work, play and relationships.
- Spirituality: Having a strong foundation, a desire to understand God
and to think beyond the superficial to discuss thoughts, desires, and
ideas with an open mind, in order to continually grow.
- Creativity: To encourage laughter, love and uniqueness. Nothing beats
laughter or love.
Too much writing for my taste.
Best life skills:
Achieving personal goals.
Making improvements and repairs around the house.
Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis.

Wishes MORE people would notice:
I'm actually the opposite of what people think I am. Many believe me to be some energetic, outgoing social
butterfly who has wild and crazy adventures... okay... maybe SOME of that is true. ;^) But I do have
another side that has adapted well to every day life. I do have periods where one would think I was a
"homebody". I'm either an introvert who LOVES people or an extrovert with a deep inner side. Take your
pick. It's good to hear that you can tone things down, but hard to believe based on everything else in your profile. If you are not that crazy, then there is a lot of toning down that needs to happen.

Can not live without:
* Affection, "I love you's," edification, adoration
* Good sleep, de-stressing, and relaxation~!
* Faith, Jesus, prayers, depth, discussing ideas
* Creativity, open minds, and original thinking
* Laughter, fitness and good dark chocolate

First thing people notice:
I am a very real and genuine person, love to give and receive affection and I am quick to find common
ground with others. The eternal optimist... I have been told that I have an "infectious laugh" and I'm always
smiling. Though that can't possibly be true? Oh, shoot, it probably is. I just realized I'm smiling right now.
Dangit. I'll tell you what, though... the mood of the people I'm with can sho' bring me down. People can get
subtly bludgeoned by negativity & energy vampires. That's why it's good to be with someone who matches
your outlook on life and your general disposition.

Whoa....someone just looooves to talk about himself. Trim this down....a lot....to a one quality and that's all.

Additional information:
I like eccentrics. I have even been accused of being eccentric! I am a free-thinker. I have been holding out
for the RIGHT fit. I'm VERY unique, so you have been warned! ;^) Deep down I am an artist and I chase
my dreams! If a little bit of outlandishness and being different doesn't suit you, then I won't either. Things that make you go hmmm.....sexual deviant? alternative lifestyle?

Spend leasure time:
- I ride motorcycles both on and off road.
- Tinkering with and fixing things.
- If there's competition, a winner and a loser, count me in. If an adrenaline rush is involved so much
the better! That is why I race cars and play competitive volleyball.
- Dancing. I love to dance. There is nothing like the feeling of gliding across the floor in sync
with both your partner and the music.

Last book:
I have to read a lot of technical material to keep up with my job and to teach classes. When I get to
read for pleasure I like to escape wit books written by Lawrence Sanders. I recently read "The Worst
Hard Time". It is about the Dust Bowl and how it impacted the people in the area at the time. Currently
reading a book given to me written by Paul Shaffer, "We'll Be Here For the Rest of Our Lives". A light
and entertaining read. Just finished reading "The Shack". I didn't think I would enjoy a fictional
story about meeting God but I was surprised. Of course I have read many relationship and self-improvement
books.

Friends description:
Optimistic
Intelligent
Ambitious
Easy-Going
OP, let me just go ahead and apologize now for the snide remarks above - they are made with good intentions. A lot of your matches may react the same way. Keep in mind that my comments are directed to what's written and how it's reading and not to you as a person.

One other comment on the above is that long, overly wordy profiles can be extremely tedious to read. While some women like that, a lot of women simply may not have time for it, set you aside to read later and later never comes. Brevity can convey the message even more effectively at times.
 
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Try removing items which convey the same idea. You have duplicity in topics of healthy lifestyle and religious beliefs and competitiveness for example. Doing this will help shorten your profile and make it more interesting to read.

Remove negative statements from your profile since they can be a turnoff. So don't mention that negative people bring you down or the energy vampire. You also don't need to state the obvious as it makes women wonder why you are focusing on it.

Get rid of the word "impeccable" and don't say a woman has to be like you in her athletism as many will feel intimimated by this or that you may be a judgmental type. Instead you can indicate you would love to find someone who can share your passion of staying healthy, fit and active with you.? So the idea is to soften the way you've worded what you're looking for.
 
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A few quick thoughts:

A genuinely good woman with a spiritual base. A woman who is as hardcore athletic as me: Lean & VERY driven by DAILY health/fitness.
No offense... I'm pretty physically active but I would immediately close you and run for the hills upon reading this. It makes it sound like you will dump a girl if she misses a day on the treadmill or gains a pound.

It's also unclear on whether you want a girl who is a Christian or not. Many Christian girls will be insulted by your insistence that they be "not TOO churchy." I'm not sure how to interpret what this means.
 
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First off, thanks for the suggestions! I have been reading these forums for a while so I expected the "over the top" and overly negative analysis. I would not have posted it if I could not take the criticism. 8^)

A genuinely good woman with a spiritual base. A woman who is as hardcore athletic as me: Lean & VERY driven by DAILY health/fitness.
No offense... I'm pretty physically active but I would immediately close you and run for the hills upon reading this. It makes it sound like you will dump a girl if she misses a day on the treadmill or gains a pound. .
Obviously nor what I meant. The suggestion by another seems somewhat close "fit, enjoys exercise and spiritual", except I have a problem with "spiritual" and I personally hate traditional exercise. I prefer to play competitive volleyball or dance for my exercise. But I do work out from time to time when I feel I need to. It is as much what I eat (or don't eat) as anything else. If I eat more stuff, or bad stuff, then I have to kick up the exercise. Ideally I would like to find someone that does not view "diet" as a bad word. We all are on a diet, it is just that some have an unhealthy one. I would love to live on a diet of nothing but rich, chocolate ice cream, but that ain't healthy.

It's also unclear on whether you want a girl who is a Christian or not. Many Christian girls will be insulted by your insistence that they be "not TOO churchy." I'm not sure how to interpret what this means .
Again, to me my intent was obvious and not the least bit insulting... that is why I am asking for suggestions. What I mean: Christian - requirement. Over the top, bible thumping, scripture quoting, highly judgmental Christian - big turn off (also the meaning of "TOO churchy"). My ex-sister-in-law was the latter and I could not stand to be around her. Since you take offense to the way I worded it in my profile, do you have a suggestion that is not "insulting"? To further clarify, I go to a contemporary bible church. I love going to that church (or one similar). I would find it painful to have to regularly attend a more traditional service.

Thank you for any specific suggestions. 8^)
 
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Wiseman2 wrote :
Wow, this is such an over-the-top-demand list most women will run !


Wow... I just described myself and my desire to have a similar mate. I never realized these were "over the top" demands. Now I know.

Two rules in life: (1) Don't sweat the small stuff. (2) Everything is small stuff." What does this have to do with anything?

Seemed obvious to me. Too many people make issues out of what is so insignificant that they should be non-issues. This approach makes the entire relationship nothing but a long protracted series of stupid little arguments and battles. I am not that way and don't want to be with someone that is. Relationships are tough enough without starting fights over stupid things.

They will picture you at spring break or on the "Jackass" show

Ouch! (normally I would have put that in caps ;^) ). The problem is that the "typical" Christian woman is ultra-straight and ultra-conservative. I have discovered from past relationship that is not a good match for me. The above was my attempt to get that message across. Guess I missed. Suggestions?


Are you looking for fawning fans..you can't live without being adored..........what?

Are you saying that you don't want to be adored by your mate?

Sounds Pollyanna.. and negative ...skip it.

I will change it to simply say I am an optimist and can't be with a pessimist. Just trying to add some "personality" to my profile.

If a little bit of outlandishness and being different doesn't suit you, then I won't either. Well this will narrow the selection, for sure, my way or the highway...very defensive and makes you sound like the nutty professor

Wow... I never would have thought of this as "defensive". It's just a stating of fact. "My way or the highway"? I am a non-conformist and am tired of mates knowing that and getting in a relationship with the intent of "changing me". It simply ain't gonna happen and they will just make the both of us miserable.

"Nutty professor"... you say that like it's a BAD thing! ;^) Honestly... "nutty professor" may not be far off.

Wiseman2 wrote :
The idea is right here , expressing yourself, revealing a bit about your lifestyle / personality. Try to keep this briefer,and leave out the all capitals. Try not too have so much caffeine when you decide to edit.


Caffeine?!? That is just the "normal" me. Remember the first question about "passionate"? I could simply answer "Everything". 8^) But no problem. The lists I am on use caps simply for emphasis (we don't use italics or a lot of smileys because the lists existed before those things came along and many use pure text readers. Caps are the only way to show emphasis.) But I would use the same inflection in person.

Like some of the comments, my responses are also a bit tongue in cheek. 8^)
 
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extremeRacer wrote :
I prefer to play competitive volleyball or dance for my exercise. But I do work out from time to time when I feel I need to.
Maybe you could just say the above, starting with the short sentence, "I'm very active." and ending with, "I'm looking for someone who would enjoy spending time with me in these kinds of activities." ?
 
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DancingFool wrote :
For some reason this reads like something copied out of an inspirational book and ultimately is kind of generic. A very pretty way of saying that you don't really have any true interests.


I guess that is one way to read it. The truth is that I am passionate about pretty much everything.

Yeash...why not just cut to the chase - fat ugly chicks need not apply.

I would not be attracted to "fat ugly chicks" IRL so I do not see this as a problem. On a more serious note there, weight is a lifestyle choice. I have had to keep my physical activity level high and cut out a lot of foods I would have eaten in the past to keep my weight under control. If I were with someone that has not made that life choice, my weight would go even higher that it used to be. I simply can not fight myself and my S.O. on this. It would be a losing battle and I simply refuse to allow myself to go back to my old weight.

A recent match listed herself as a "foodie" and was seeking a similar match. That would probably not be a good match for me.


You have to be HOT, a perv in the bedroom and still presentable to mom and dad.

I didn't put "HOT," say anything about the bedroom nor mom and dad. My requirement are much lower than you assume them to be.

Seriously - the questions is ONE quality so stick to that. More is not better in this case.

If my changing "thing" to "things" in the question is a problem for the reader then she needs to just hit the "close" button. 8^) Seriously, there is not just one thing I can put... unless you have a suggestion and know something I can put. I am quite open for suggestions here.

If you are not that crazy, then there is a lot of toning down that needs to happen.

That is why I posted here. I wrote what I though was appropriate. I am not sure what areas to "tone down" to eliminate the "crazy".

Whoa....someone just looooves to talk about himself. Trim this down....a lot....to a one quality and that's all.

Silly me... I thought the point of a personal profile was to talk about oneself. ;^) But seriously, I get yer point. 8^) I just doubt it will ever get down to one thing.

Things that make you go hmmm.....sexual deviant? alternative lifestyle?

Like I said... the collective minds in this forum often tend to go straight to the gutter quick. I sure hope the average eH member isn't so cynical or jaded. Otherwise I am conducting my search in the wrong place.

DancingFool wrote :
OP, let me just go ahead and apologize now for the snide remarks above - they are made with good intentions. A lot of your matches may react the same way. Keep in mind that my comments are directed to what's written and how it's reading and not to you as a person.


I understand and expected the snide remarks. 8^) And, in my defense, I did not write all of my profile. Much of it (especially the wordy parts) came from a close female friend. She is an artist and it's just the way she is. And there were parts I thought were a bit over the top when I read it. But I obviously liked it or I would not have used it.

DancingFool wrote :
One other comment on the above is that long, overly wordy profiles can be extremely tedious to read. While some women like that, a lot of women simply may not have time for it, set you aside to read later and later never comes. Brevity can convey the message even more effectively at times.


Hmmm, not sure I am interested in women that do not take the time to read long profiles. So maybe the length is a good thing for me. But I will do some of the suggested edits and cuts. That is why I asked in the first place.

All joking aside, thank you for the input. Rest assured I will heed it and make changes. 8^)
 
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Maybe you could just say the above, starting with the short sentence, "I'm very active." and ending with, "I'm looking for someone who would enjoy spending time with me in these kinds of activities." ?


Thanks, I like the idea. The problem is that it is not a requirement if she plays competitive volleyball or dances. Nice to have? Yes. Requirement? No. Plus, I would be open to almost any physical activity. Golf, softball, tennis, rock climbing, running, etc. My activity has changed over the years based on whatever my current group of friends do. All that really matters is that it burns calories so that I can eat more than the bare minimum without gaining weight. 8^) Even with my current activity level I have to really watch what I eat to not gain weight.

Not sure how to say that in three words or less. 8^)
 
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