Contentmentandjoy is offline Contentmentandjoy Post #1  November 1,2010, 8:27am
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I have been on eharmony for 2+ months and received many matches. I have responded to 30+ of the matches and have the only feedback I received was to close the match. Am I doing something wrong?
 
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Welcome to the boards!

One thing you can do is post your profile here for a "peer review". The instructions are here.

We don't bite (hard). And, I can promise you will get some great feedback. Even if you don't like it all.

Do you have photos? How many? Close ups? Full body? With others... specifically those of the opposite sex... or by yourself.
 
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This is a great idea, I might add that many profiles are deadheads (expired or nonpaying members) who can not respond

AndieIsMe wrote :
One thing you can do is post your profile here for a "peer review". The instructions are here.

We don't bite (hard). And, I can promise you will get some great feedback. Even if you don't like it all.
 
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Hi Contentmentandjoy,

I concur with Andieisme. Also, you said you "responded" -- does that mean they initiated or you? There could be a few different things going on.

I hope you post your profile. It's safe and anonymous.

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Contentmentandjoy is offline Contentmentandjoy Post #5  November 1,2010, 5:33pm
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I initiated the communication, none of the matches initiated any type of communication.
I concur with Andieisme. Also, you said you "responded" -- does that mean they initiated or you? There could be a few different things going on.

I hope you post your profile. It's safe and anonymous.

All the best,

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Contentmentandjoy wrote :
Thank you for the support. I have copied my profile below
Fine.

Now, follow the directions that Andie told you about. No one will see your profile here.
 
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No need, I'll pull your post and create a new thread for you, contentmentandjoy.
 
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