Profile Review: 46yo Male

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me:
"Hmmm, I never know what people don't notice about me since they never tell me ... maybe because they didn't notice!" Okay, couldn't let that one go by without a quirky answer to an odd question. So let's change the question to something more meaningful: "When you first meet someone, what would you like them to notice about
you?" I think people are too quick to pigeon-hole me. If they hear me at work talking about my favorite donuts, they think me a little silly. If they hear me explaining how to solve a design problem, they think I'm too brainy. What takes time for them to see, I'm all of these and more ... and surprisingly athletic.

Some additional information I want you to know:

In the spring I moved to Seattle from the Midwest, so still learning what the area has to offer. I'm always looking for new places to eat, different places to go, a variety of things to do. As for the question about how much do you drink, don't let my answer "several times a week" mislead you. I like having 1-2 glasses of wine several times a week. It's supposed to be good for you! But otherwise I only go out drinking with co-workers for the occasional happy hour or once a week or so for karaoke. Lastly, don't be too quick to pigeon
-hole me as others have done ... you may very well be in for a pleasant surprise!

I just updated my profile and would appreciate any feedback.

Basic Information
Occupation: Computer professional
Age 46
Height 5' 7"
Wants Kids: Maybe
Kids at Home: No
Ethnicity White, non-Hispanic
Religion: Spiritual, but not religious
Drinks: Several times a week
Smokes: Never

The one thing I am most passionate about:

I am most passionate about enjoying myself, no matter what situation I find myself in at the time. Lately I have been trying to simplify life, taking the time to appreciate a meal, a glass of wine, or music. As many have said, life is about the journey, not the destination. My take on that is "you might as well find something you enjoy along the way!"
This is nice, but at the same time bland. It comes across like you have absolutely nothing in life that truly interests you or captures your attention, be it a hobby, sport or something else. What gets you out of bed in the morning? What motivates? What captures your attention?

The most important thing I am looking for in a person is:

The most important quality I am looking for is someone who is expressive, being able to talk about what's on her mind. (My premium profile will tell you I am an extrovert. What it doesn't tell you is I am a reformed introvert! With my previous job, I was a computer consultant constantly traveling. Often being around people
I didn't know, I learned how to become more talkative.) Everything in the parentheses is extraneous info that does not make a lot of sense. I would simply take it out and rephrase the last sentence a bit. Now I'd like to find someone to continue the conversation.

In my own words

The most influential person in my life has been:

Up to this point, the most influential person has been my friend Jennifer. We were very different people when we met, having taken different paths in life up to that point. But we learned from each other and became great friends for several years. Our lives took us in separate directions a few years back, but we definitely left footprints in each other's lives. And hey, when all is said and done, isn't that what life is all about? A whole lot of your matches will read this as you are emotionally attached to another woman. Women are all about having an emotional connection with their man and having to compete for that with his female friend, who is such an influence and for whom he may have some feelings, will send your matches running away screaming. I'd completely redo this paragraph.

The three things which I am most thankful for:
•a life that makes me laugh
•very good friends
•memorable food

Three of my best life-skills are:
•Using humor to make friends laugh
•Remaining calm yet resilient during a crisis
•Finding pleasure and contentment in simple things

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me:
"Hmmm, I never know what people don't notice about me since they never tell me ... maybe because they didn't notice!" Okay, couldn't let that one go by without a quirky answer to an odd question. So let's change the question to something more meaningful: "When you first meet someone, what would you like them to notice about
you?" I think people are too quick to pigeon-hole me. If they hear me at work talking about my favorite donuts, they think me a little silly. If they hear me explaining how to solve a design problem, they think I'm too brainy. What takes time for them to see, I'm all of these and more ... and surprisingly athletic. Nice!

The things I can't live without are:

chocolate (a daily requirement)
music (to listen, sing, and occasionally dance)
a friend's funny story
something new to learn (golf might be next)
pie from a "mom and pop" restaurant

The first thing people notice about me:

People often comment how I always seem upbeat, smiling and laughing, trying to bring out the same in others. Over time I have learned when to have fun, but also when to be serious. Life takes a little of both, but I try to tip the scales towards the positive side.

Some additional information I want you to know:

In the spring I moved to Seattle from the Midwest, so still learning what the area has to offer. I'm always looking for new places to eat, different places to go, a variety of things to do. As for the question about how much do you drink, don't let my answer "several times a week" mislead you. I like having 1-2 glasses of wine several times a week. It's supposed to be good for you! But otherwise I only go out drinking with co-workers for the occasional happy hour or once a week or so for karaoke. Lastly, don't be too quick to pigeon
-hole me as others have done ... you may very well be in for a pleasant surprise! That last sentence is awkward - your match does not know you enough to pigeon hole you.......

My interests

I typically spend my leisure time:
I like to spend my leisure time playing volleyball and tennis, sometimes coaching. I moved to the Seattle area in large part because of the natural surroundings, so looking to spend time hiking and biking as well. I also like listening to music, singing along, sometimes at karaoke ... sometimes just rocking out in the car!
Lastly, I enjoy traveling and exploring, with a goal of at least one nice vacation a year.

The last book I read and enjoyed:

"The God Code" by Greg Braden. The author combines science & religion to define God. I tend toward new age/metaphysical/spiritual books with a good mystery/suspense thrown in every once in a while.

According to my friends:

My friends describe me as:
Funny
Kind
Optimistic
Intelligent

The most influential person in my life has been:

Up to this point, the most influential person has been my friend Jennifer. We were very different people when we met, having taken different paths in life up to that point. But we learned from each other and became great friends for several years. Our lives took us in separate directions a few years back, but we definitely left footprints in each other's lives. And hey, when all is said and done, isn't that what life is all about?