ngbm is offline ngbm Post #1  October 30,2010, 2:50pm
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So this match that I haven't communicated with in about 3 weeks or so keeps viewing my profile almost every day. Whats up with that?

He can either send me an e-mail or something. He stopped responding and started acting uninterested about 4 weeks ago, and I let him be because I was not interested in chasing after any man. His excuse was that he was too busy.

My thinking is if you have time to log on to EH, you have time to send me a quick email.

He didnt do this while we were actively communication, we were in communication for about a month via email and phone.

So does anyone have any ideas why he is viewing my profile every other day for the last 3 weeks?
 
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OlderButWiser0549 is offline OlderButWiser0549 Post #2  October 30,2010, 3:17pm
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So does anyone have any ideas why he is viewing my profile every other day for the last 3 weeks?
Maybe he's just wishy-washy and can't make up his mind whether he's interested in you or not? That's all I can come up with.
 
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I have even a better question, if you are not interested in him why have you not informed him that you are no longer interested and closed the match???
 
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I would be closing him after the 1st week of no contact.
 
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Two things:

A) If you are worried about it, then close the match. Is there some weird reason you haven't done that yet?
B) My trick is to click on every profile in my "communicating" tab once a week. This makes me show up in the "viewed" notifications. That way, I can get some closure about whether someone is interested or not. This also makes it easier to do the nudges. I'm sure that I'm not the first person to think about doing this.
 
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Sounds like a jerk. I say close the match and move on.
 
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Or maybe he's viewing your profile to copy and paste answers he sent to you for other matches?

If you're not interested then just close him. If you still are interested, then view his profile or strike up coummunication again.
 
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Are you viewing his profile everytime he views yours? Maybe he's thinking the same thing about you
 
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