Oops! Can't undo a closed match! Need Guy's Advice Please

I also wouldn't date someone separated because it means you are still married. Period.

Last week I closed a match with a guy I had been talking through the site with. He had given me his phone # but I was too nervous to call and gave him mine in my last email communication with him. Two days later he texted that he would love to talk. I texted him back later telling him what time of day I could talk. No call for that day and the next, so after one too many glasses of wine I decided to close his match out of frustration.

Problem is, I really feel like I screwed this up majorly. Did I not wait long enough for him to call? We had tons in common, and I cannot stop thinking about him. I texted him a couple of days later and said I was wondering if I had closed our communication down too early, but no response. Is there any reason to have hope here, or is this a lost cause? Is the fact that he knows I'm separated but not divorced play into this? I didn't want to be dishonest about it, but friends have told me that guys think women who are separated could jump back to their exs any minute, which is definitely not the case with me.