veronica_24 is offline veronica_24 Post #1  October 22,2010, 10:29pm
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Ive been using E Harmony for a while now but haven't had much luck with the men. Well, it's more me than luck I guess. I'm just not attracted to any of them and like I thought, the whole dating men thing will just never work for me

Anyways, my points is - does E harmony have a lesbian matchmaking scheme? If yes, then how can I pretty much change all my current preferences?
 
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Hi Veronica_24,

Eharmony has a gay/lesbian dating service: Compatible Partners - Gay Dating for Relationship-Minded Gay & Lesbian Singles

I don't know whether or how you can transfer your membership to this service -- you could contact customer care and ask them ... 800-951-2023.

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windsurfing is offline windsurfing Post #3  October 23,2010, 7:47am
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I realize that eH started Gay/Lesbian services. A gay friend of mine was angry at eH for not having the service, thinking it was prejudiced. It is good that they are now open to more diverse populations.
 
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Hi veronica_24,

If you know that eHarmony isn't the site for you, as Sass indicated, our Customer Care team will be glad to help you transition to our Compatible Partners site.

Compatible Parners was launched in 2009, and we are very happy to share that we just added a Success Stories page on that site: Success Stories from Compatible Partners.

I wish you all the best with your search.

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Compatible partners does not have a lot of members, so create an account and see how many matches you get/how far away they are before you pay up.

A good online dating site is OKCupid - not sure about lesbians, but the gay men I know looking for relationships have had pretty good luck with that site vs. others (you can see how others preferences in major categories match with your own)
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Not exactly to the question asked but certainly germane to the topic. You seem a bit unsure of your sexuality. I am not sure that a dating site is the place to be trying to figure that out. It seems that someone, probably a lot of someones, is going to get hurt.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Not exactly to the question asked but certainly germane to the topic. You seem a bit unsure of your sexuality. I am not sure that a dating site is the place to be trying to figure that out. It seems that someone, probably a lot of someones, is going to get hurt.
This is true - if you haven't been with women before and this is experimentation, you need to make that clear. I don't think looking for someone online is a bad move, but no one likes to be used so you need to be upfront.
 
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