On eharmony what is your match age settings?


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ELAINEMARIE is offline ELAINEMARIE Post #1  October 22,2010, 6:23pm
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I usually set mine for men that are 8-10 younger and the maximum age different for men that are perhaps up to 8 yrs older than me. I would really probably like to have some one around my age, but I figured that that way I would get more matches, and someone wouldn't be young enough to be my son, or old enough to be my father. I was just curiosity what do you set your age match setting on?
 
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About the same as you, for the same reasons. 10 years younger to 7 years older.
 
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suzyque is offline suzyque Post #3  October 22,2010, 7:04pm
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I always preferred men a bit older - my age and 8 years up.
 
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I go down 10 years and up a few. Mainly because that matches the stage of life I'm in... still raising kids.
 
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My settings run from six years younger to five years older...though I have my doubts about whether a 21-22 year old would really be mature enough for me.
 
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I have mine skewed a little younger where I am 40 so my range is around 30-45.

Whatever your age range is...be realistic and dont come back and say "I need to end it because I think you are too young for me"
 
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At 55 I did -5 to +10. I got a fair number of flex matches outside that range though, in both directions.
 
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suzyque wrote :
I always preferred men a bit older - my age and 8 years up.
Curious...I looked at your age.....why do you still skew older. That is a more typical age range of a woman in their early or mid 20s. a woman at 27 may have an age profile of 25-35.
 
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Sassafras54 wrote :
At 55 I did -5 to +10. I got a fair number of flex matches outside that range though, in both directions.

How many years ago was this?
 
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ami1uwant wrote :
How many years ago was this?
Are you trying to insult me, ami1? I don't insult easily. lol.

One year. Ago.
 
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