johie926 is offline johie926 Post #1  October 20,2010, 10:45pm
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Hello,
I need your help. When a match interested me I always write an e-mail and it work well. But the problem is the match never answer after this one. I never the chance to communicate with them it like make a solo by e-mail. What can I do? It happen today a the match was very very interesting..... if I sent the questions no one answer to them. Sometime I have the impression the message is not read or not receive..... Thank you for your help.
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ISearch4Love is offline ISearch4Love Post #2  October 21,2010, 3:45am
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I'd try to help but I don't fully understand what you are asking.
 
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iamgermajesty is offline iamgermajesty Post #3  October 21,2010, 4:00am
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I think what you're asking is why don't matches respond to your communications? Either you send them a mail or you send the first questions and they don't respond?

This is a common problem, a lot of people find. A lot of the profiles belong to non-paying members or those who are no longer active, so they may not be logging in anymore.

Just keep trying!
 
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ISearch4Love is offline ISearch4Love Post #4  October 21,2010, 6:19am
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That's right! Most of the people you're matched with are not active members.
 
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As the others have said most of your matches are non-paying members who cannot respond. Most non-paying members are non-active meaning they won't view you or close.

It is a numbers game, so the more matches you contact the more likely one will respond. I would suggest sending First Questions to all your matches that you have any interest in. Check your Who's Viewed Me to get a feel for which matches are at least active, if they view you then they are at least active though they may not be paying members. There is also no reason to be quick about closing matches, you can leave them open for a long time.
 
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Vous pouvez envoyer votre adresse e-mail à votre match. Votre match ne peut répondre pour plusieurs raisons:

1) Il n'a pas à payer pour l'adhésion. (La raison la plus courante)

2) Il est trop occupé pour répondre.

3) Il n'est pas intéressé et tout simplement vous ignorer.

Dès que vous arrivez à eHarmony mail, envoyez votre e-mail et numéro de téléphone.

S'il ne répond pas, alors il n'est pas intéressé ou qu'il ne paie pas à l'adhésion et ne peut donc pas répondre.

johie926 wrote :
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I need your help. When a match interested me I always write an e-mail and it work well. But the problem is the match never answer after this one. I never the chance to communicate with them it like make a solo by e-mail. What can I do? It happen today a the match was very very interesting..... if I sent the questions no one answer to them. Sometime I have the impression the message is not read or not receive..... Thank you for your help.
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How you know she speaks French?
 
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