afriendly is offline afriendly Post #1  October 16,2010, 6:01pm
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If you reopen a match, are they notified that you reopened them?
 
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afriendly wrote :
If you reopen a match, are they notified that you reopened them?
Since the re-open requests are flipped in the new system, I am not positive, the match you are trying to re-open hasn't confirmed the close on their end, so if you re-open on your end (only option), nothing really happen on theirs, besides the status change next to your name.. Maybe one of the others can chime in or one of the admins and confirm..


It shouldn't really matter if they do or don't, if you are re-opening, I assume you will be sending them questions or eH mail..So they are going to be notified of those too..
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Closed one by mistake. Two, believe it or not, have the same name and in the same city. One I am talking outside of eharmony, so I do not want her to think badly of she sees me mark her as closed. Then again, if she is closed and notified, that is not good either.
 
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I would call eHarmony support and ask, just be sure.
 
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afriendly wrote :
Closed one by mistake. Two, believe it or not, have the same name and in the same city. One I am talking outside of eharmony, so I do not want her to think badly of she sees me mark her as closed. Then again, if she is closed and notified, that is not good either.
I did that with a person I was in stage 3 with.. I re-opened almost immediately, we continued she never said a word about it..
 
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