lmh720 is offline lmh720 Post #1  October 10,2010, 7:34pm
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I just joined eharmony and had a lot of matches pop up in the first few days. My profile says I don't want kids (I'm young- early/mid twenties), which I don't now. I know I do eventually, but I've got more school and a move to go before I'm ready for that. Do I keep my profile at no? Or move it to maybe or yes?
 
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pamcam is offline pamcam Post #2  October 10,2010, 7:39pm
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Welcome to EH and the boards. How about yes and then in another section add that you want kids after you're more established in your career
 
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If you are positive you want kids eventually, then you say yes.. (yes doesn't mean tomorrow)

Yes = Eventually/Future

Maybe = On the fence..you do-but might not/depends /would be happy either way.

No = Never!
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It's about whether you want kids ever, not right at this moment. It's more a question of where you see your life and if kids will ever be in it. For you, I wouldn't say no but a yes or maybe. And by the way, you get more matches when you are a yes or maybe haha.
 
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