Do You Check Someone's Profile After They Close You Out?


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SoilderLover is offline SoilderLover Post #1  October 10,2010, 5:12pm
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Have you ever looked at someone's profile after they closed you out and why?

I haven't yet but I noticed that I have closed some peoples' profiles out and they have checked mine. I suppose that there are some obvious reasons why you would like to check such as are they attractive or not or maybe you wonder why they closed you out and thought maybe their profile would give you a clue?
 
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If I log in and see someone new closed me, of course I look..

I don't go into the closed section of the archived folder though..

are you using one of the apps on a phone? If you closed someone out.. they don't appear on your who's viewed me list...so how do you know they are looking at your profile? unless your just archiving them...
 
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I usually do, just to finish up the closing process. I like closure
 
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I don't. Once they close me, my only option is to close them so I just click "close match". :P
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #5  October 10,2010, 11:56pm
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When I was using the service, yes, I read every profile I was matched with, regardless of whether he had closed me or not. I'm quite analytical, so I would look over the profiles to see if there was a trend I could spot in those who were closing me as opposed to those who did not.
 
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I have the ability to only show my picture to matches I want to so when I get closed I go into the profile to turn off my sharing photo option then close them, so it would probably show up as viewing their profile.
 
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No, I can feel the accumulation of profiles passed on, and those people who have passed on mine, but Orpheus-like I don't look back. Hey wait, Orpheus did look back, and Eurydice evanesced. Lot and his family (all except his wife) might be a be a better simile.

I naturally assume they are certain of what they were doing, and it only seems right to respect their wishes.
 
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
If I log in and see someone new closed me, of course I look..

I don't go into the closed section of the archived folder though..

are you using one of the apps on a phone? If you closed someone out.. they don't appear on your who's viewed me list...so how do you know they are looking at your profile? unless your just archiving them...
No I don't use the application on my phone. I don't have internet nor do I have texting on my phone.

Thanks for letting me know that because they might so they wouldn't know if I might have veiwed them.
 
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kikigirl123 wrote :
I usually do, just to finish up the closing process. I like closure
Thanks, that is a good point. Its nice to have closure.
 
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YellowUmbrella wrote :
I don't. Once they close me, my only option is to close them so I just click "close match". :P
That is what I usually do. I just close out the match when it said closed matched. I figured if they closed me out they aren't interested so its just easier to close them out as well.
 
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