Follow-up email if you do not hear back from a OC?


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afriendly is offline afriendly Post #1  October 8,2010, 5:58pm
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We were going back and forth about every other day. Its been a couple days since I heard back from her. Would it be safe to send another email let's say Monday or Tuesday if I do not hear back from her to see if she still has interest in me? She's also on match, and she did login today, so not sure what that means.
 
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It means she's not putting all her eggs in one basket. Send her another email, if she doesn't respond, you'll have your answer and can act appropriately.
 
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I agree with the above post!
 
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What's a safe way to word the still interested email?
 
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What's with all the "safe" stuff? Just send a friendly "Hi, how are you" type email. if she ignores it , she has moved on.
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What's a safe way to word the still interested email?
I'd just say Hi, hope you're having a great weekend. Would you be interested in getting a drink or cup of coffee on Wednesday night?

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VB_Girl wrote :
I'd just say Hi, hope you're having a great weekend. Would you be interested in getting a drink or cup of coffee on Wednesday night?

Good luck.
Yup. Perhaps it's time to meet? Is there some reason you want to continue OC rather than meeting?
 
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Usually wait until the forth email to setup a date. Just surprised the rhythm of the emails back and forth changed. Might mean she lost interest already..
 
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It could also mean she just wants to meet, doesn't like extended emailing. A lot of people don't ... they start to think you're just looking for email buddies.
 
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Just thinking I did not answer one of her questions to her liking and that is why she's not responded yet..
 
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