mohegan284 is offline mohegan284 Post #1  October 8,2010, 6:24am
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So one of my recent, very compatible matches and I had a very solid back and forth with the guided questions and open ended answers.

Went very well.

And I want to send her an message or email...but I can't because I'm waiting for her response to my answers to her questions (the open ended questions phase). I sent her an IceBreaker in the hopes that she would realize she has to make the next move in order to "unlock" it.

But as with all of our communication...I got a response just a few hours later...which was an IceBreaker from her...which didn't "unlock" the communication.
 
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Eh is having a "free until email" event, she would have to sign up and pay to send you the first email.
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So one of my recent, very compatible matches and I had a very solid back and forth with the guided questions and open ended answers.

Went very well.

And I want to send her an message or email...but I can't because I'm waiting for her response to my answers to her questions (the open ended questions phase). I sent her an IceBreaker in the hopes that she would realize she has to make the next move in order to "unlock" it.

But as with all of our communication...I got a response just a few hours later...which was an IceBreaker from her...which didn't "unlock" the communication.
 
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mohegan284 wrote :
So one of my recent, very compatible matches and I had a very solid back and forth with the guided questions and open ended answers.

Went very well.

And I want to send her an message or email...but I can't because I'm waiting for her response to my answers to her questions (the open ended questions phase). I sent her an IceBreaker in the hopes that she would realize she has to make the next move in order to "unlock" it.

But as with all of our communication...I got a response just a few hours later...which was an IceBreaker from her...which didn't "unlock" the communication.
She is not a subscriber, and will not be able to communicate unless she subscribes, or until eHarmony as a REAL Free Communication Weekend, not this charade of one.

Ideally, she would have mentioned, "I am a non-paying member and cannot communicate beyond Step 3 until the next actual FCW." But in your case, you'll both have to wait. If she is interested, she'll be back.
 
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ISearch4Love is offline ISearch4Love Post #4  October 8,2010, 2:31pm
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Unfortunately the above posters are right. This isn't free communication, it's free guided communication.Non paying members can't use the open communication during this event.
 
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