STL314 is offline STL314 Post #1  October 4,2010, 6:58pm
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I am in the open-ended questions phase of guided communication. He sent me his 3 questions which I answered, and then I also sent him my 3 questions. However, in the commincating tab, it still shows the next step as "Send him your questions". Does this mean my questions never actually got sent to him or how can I tell if he has read them?
 
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It'll stay that way until he answers your questions.
 
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I think it should read waiting for response (or something close to that) Other than receiving a reply, there is no way to tell if a match has read your questions (we've asked the eH product team to add a read or not read status)

You can also go to the profile
- click on mailbox
- then click on (3) learn more about xxx ...it will give you the time stamp of when you sent the questions.
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
there is no way to tell if a match has read your questions (we've asked the eH product team to add a read or not read status)
That would be nice. At least that way you'd know if they just hadn't been online since you sent the questions or if they chose to ignore you after reading them.
 
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ISearch4Love wrote :
That would be nice. At least that way you'd know if they just hadn't been online since you sent the questions or if they chose to ignore you after reading them.
yeah, the eH product team used to come here looking for feedback, This was one of features discussed and suggested by many, but like most of their members they poofed.

 
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Just wanted to add that this stage can be one where your match takes longer to respond especially if he is putting some time and thought into answering your questions. I've found a quick response time is usually a good sign of strong interest. But on the flip side some men will poof at this stage of communication as well if they have lukewarm interest (especially true of men who use the shotgun approach and send questions to many women).

I make the questions I send at this stage easy to answer (questions about things in their profile) and fun in nature, not "what is the meaning of life" philosophical questions to make it less of an obstacle to get them through this stage.
 
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
yeah, the eH product team used to come here looking for feedback, This was one of features discussed and suggested by many, but like most of their members they poofed.
Yeah, that was disappointing. I guess like many people that post here, they were also only looking for validation rather than valid feedback.
 
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