zer is offline zer Post #1  October 4,2010, 3:24pm
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I have been separated for a long time but eHarmony doesn't allow me to login. I didn't know about that condition. Anyone knows how long does it take to be able to log in?

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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #2  October 4,2010, 3:34pm
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according to the TOS. You have to be legally divorced. You could risk it, but really all it takes is one match to have you booted, so why take the risk you lose the girl and your money.

If you search this forum you'll find several threads on how to report a match for this reason.



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Marital Status. By requesting to use, registering to use, or using the Singles Service, you represent and warrant that you are not married. If you are separated, but not yet legally divorced, you may not request to use, register to use, or use the Singles Service.
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suzyque is offline suzyque Post #3  October 4,2010, 3:43pm
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I know Match.com will let you join if you are separated. They don't even ask, however, most people on Match do put on their profile when they are separated.
 
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suzyque wrote :
I know Match.com will let you join if you are separated. They don't even ask, however, most people on Match do put on their profile when they are separated.
Out of the 4 main e-dating sites eH is the only one that does not allow you to be separated all the others have the status for separated people.
 
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If you mentioned you are separated then that would kill your access...if you said you were seperated to a potential date and the reported you then you would violate the TOS contract.

The question is...why arent you divorced yet if separated a long time?
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #6  October 4,2010, 8:19pm
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And if you say you are divorced to bypass the filters, then your date eventually finds out you're not... things don't usually go well.
 
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Wiseman2 is offline Wiseman2 Post #7  October 5,2010, 8:01am
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When your divorce is final
zer wrote :
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I have been separated for a long time but eHarmony doesn't allow me to log in. I didn't know about that condition. Anyone know how long does it take to be able to log in?

Thanks
 
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On SeniorMatch you can put separated as well. They also have "divorce pending".
 
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According to eHarmony TOS you have to be legally divorced. eHarmony does not allow people who are only separated to use it's services.
 
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You know it doesn't matter how many threads you start about this, EH still does not accept 'separated' members!
 
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