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So I click on one of the something to tak about on one of my matches and say "hey i like that too". She replies and now there is no way to do any of the guided communictation stutt. I though this would be sort of like an icebreaker. Is there anyway to go to guided communication at this point.if not another thing i dont like about eharmony
 
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So I click on one of the something to tak about on one of my matches and say "hey i like that too". She replies and now there is no way to do any of the guided communictation stutt. I though this would be sort of like an icebreaker. Is there anyway to go to guided communication at this point.if not another thing i dont like about eharmony
Based on what others told me on another issue I don't think so. Although you can still ask some of the GC questions in OC. Good luck.
 
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I have never clicked on any of the things listed in my matches Something to Talk About but I would not like it if it took me directly to the Open Communication phase either.
 
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Once you've entered OC you cannot return or start GC. As Socalgal said, you can ask some of the GC questions in your e-mails.
 
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Hi Frogprince,

I just wanted to piggyback on what Socalgal55 and Andieisme have said. I just wanted to confirm that it's true that you can't go back to Guided Communication, and yes! By all means feel free to ask those questions in your own words. Since your match skipped to eHarmony Mail, your match may prefer this style of communication anyway.

Good luck and keep us posted on how it goes!

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It'd be nice to have a warning: "This will take you away from the GC. Want to proceed?"
Glad the board dwellers know now.
 
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Thanks for clarifying everyone. Sent her another message with the the first set of questions at the bottom. Hopefully, this doesn't annoy her, and make me seem weird.
 
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