Canuckjammer is offline Canuckjammer Post #1  June 10,2010, 6:52pm
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Do most people stick with guided communication or go straight to open email?
 
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eH_Advice_Host_Renee is offline eH_Advice_Host_Renee Post #2  June 11,2010, 11:01am

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Hi Canuckjammer,

Welcome to eHarmony Advice!

From my experience working with eHarmony members and from what many members have shared here on Advice, most members seem to choose to take advantage of the Guided Communication (GC) process, either in its entirety or in part, before entering into eHarmony Mail (eH Mail) with a match.

Because the GC allows a member to get to know their matches in a thoughtful, easy, yet more and more in-depth way, many members feel it's the most comfortable and best way to evaluate their matches before deciding to go into eH Mail and, perhaps, continue their relationship off our site.

But, GC is not for everyone, and there are always exceptions to the rule. Something about a match may convince a member to bypass GC and go right into eH Mail. One thing to always remember, though, is that, once you enter into eH Mail, you can't go back to GC.

Just wondering, Canuckjammer, if you have a preference and why?

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sunshine03 is offline sunshine03 Post #3  October 24,2010, 5:41pm

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LOL I just posted the same question in another post.
 
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