kozeeone is offline kozeeone Post #1  June 10,2010, 5:40pm
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Hello, I am becoming increasingly frustrated. I have reviewed my profile numerous times.. friends review, etc. The "matches" I am receiving are men that do not match my idea of compatibility. Don't get me wrong, I am not looking for Mr. Perfect (on paper) but I like the idea of my match having something in common with me.

Also, why am I only getting one match a day?
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #2  June 10,2010, 5:52pm
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How are you sure you are not compatable?
How many have you gone into OC with?
And usually after you have been on EH awhile your match numbers go down. Sometimes to one a week.
 
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Good god in heaven, sacrilage!

I mean, I might get one per month.

If you want more, widen one or more of your settings.

As for compatibility, it is best to communicate to be sure.
 
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Hi kozeeone, welcome to the advice forums. Have you looked at your match settings to ensure that your settings are not limiting the matches you get? I agree, one new match per day is a little low. If you like, you can post your profile for review here. We might see it in a way that you and your friends may have missed.
 
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Your profile won't change who you are matched with. You might want to retake the questionnaire. If you contact Customer Care they can help you with that.

If you would also like to have us review your profile, there are instructions at the top of this board. http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...tructions.html
 
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kozeeone wrote :
Hello, I am becoming increasingly frustrated. I have reviewed my profile numerous times.. friends review, etc. The "matches" I am receiving are men that do not match my idea of compatibility.
Sometimes friends won't be brutally honest with you for fear of hurting your feelings(fortunately, for you... we won't show that restraint.)

Why not post your profile?...
 
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