peonies37 is offline peonies37 Post #1  June 10,2010, 7:01am
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Is it possible to only disclose photos to certain matches? I was matched up with a guy I was seeing for a bit and he showed me his photo and claimed he only shares it with certain individuals..Now that things are not going well--I think he's done with us actually-I can no longer see his photo..But we are still in communication..why wouldn't he just close match?
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #2  June 10,2010, 7:40am
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I think it used to be possible to share your photo with only those who had a photo posted themselves. But with the number of downgrades in service the last few months, I don't know. Why would you want to hide your photo? It's like walking around with a bag over your head.
 
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Hi Peonies37,

Welcome to eHarmony Advice!

For some members who originally signed up a long time ago, it is still possible to select to share photos on a “Match by Match basis” or to share photos at a later stage in communication. I don’t know why this match has decided to keep the match open if you aren’t continuing to pursue the relationship, but it is likely that if he signed up a while ago, he is hiding his photo as a way to communicate the “closure” in lieu of actually closing the match.

You said you are still in communication, and although I don’t know the details, it could also be that he would like to keep the lines of communication open with you, but just also wants to be open to other possibilities.

I hope you join us for more discussions, there are a lot of people here who can provide helpful insight, and could benefit from your perspectives too.

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