confused in eHarmony land lol

The one thing Alberta is most passionate about:

my kids, my family, my faith, helping others, I have a huge heart for all who serve in our military for one of the most important people in my life (my little brother) is serving in the US Army. God bless them all. I'm an ex military wife so I understand this way of life more so than most might so I have great passion for our military for our troops. That last sentence reads a bit like bad baggage alert - like you are not quite over the ex or the lifestyle you had with him.



The most important thing Alberta is looking for in a person is:

Someone who is family geared is very important to me.Their love for God. Honesty and openness is very important as well. You have to be able to laugh with life. Laughter is a huge part of my life. I missed my calling I swear!! Someone I can trust and communicate with. Communication is a very big part. Someone who just really enjoys life. I want someone I can grow with. Someone I can learn from and who wants to learn from me. Narrow this down to just one or two qualities that are super important to you and expand a little. For instance, their love for God - what does that mean? Do you need someone to be of the same religion as you? Do you need someone who will go to your church with you every week? Or is it more that they have faith at large?


Basic Information
Occupation: working for a family owned business
Age: 33
Height: 5' 6"
Wants Kids: Maybe
Kids at Home: Yes
Ethnicity: White, non-Hispanic
Religion: Christian
Drinks: A few times a year
Smokes: Never

The most influential person in Alberta's life has been:

My grandparents for sure. My grandma raised me and after she passed my grandpa continued to raise me. Very important people in my life. Shaped me into the person I am today. My little brother who has shown me that no matter what you have been through you can make the best of what is before you. He's my hero



The three things which Alberta is most thankful for:

* Both of my kids
* My closeness to God
* Our Military for their fight each day so that we may live in a free country

Three of Alberta's best life-skills are:

* Using humor to make friends laugh
* Communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings
* Raising and/or caring for children



The one thing Alberta wishes MORE people would notice about her is:

I tend to be very silly. Not something someone might not notice right off the bat. I'm very proud of our troops. Huge supporter of our military. My little brother is in the Army. I burst with pride with him. oops they said ONE thing lol guess they shouldn't give me so much room to type than haha. I'm super duper easy to talk to. See give me room to type and I just keep going lol. Ummm....the first sentence is fine, the rest.....you are repeating what you've already said and it does not make much sense as an answer. You really need to stop with that first sentence. By the way, you are not easy to talk to if you are the one doing all the talking - that last sentence is likely to spook a lot of men.



The things Alberta can't live without are:

* my kids
* God
* family & friends
* humor & laughter cant have one without the other
* chocolate & Starbucks lol


The first thing people notice about Alberta is:

They tend to notice my eyes. My grandpa use to tell me "God took halos and placed them into your eyes your soul shines bright my angel"


Some additional information Alberta wanted you to know is:

I actually go by my middle name which is Jean. I was named after my grandma who raised me. I'm a very passionate person.I'm very passionate about my life in God. I love doing things for my church. I'm very silly and am always making my friends and family laugh. The best thing I could do in a day is make someone laugh. I'm so funny that I'm usually making myself laugh. I have the knack for finding the humor in everything in life. My nick name just happens to be Goober lol and no not the chocolate covered peanuts lol even know those are super yummy!! lol I may not look like it but I love classic cars!! I grew up a tom boy lol Once again you are repeating everything you've already said before so there is no value added here. Also, you are saying you are sooo funny....but nothing in your profile shows humor. What do people who like classic cars look like? Weird thing to say. If you like them just say that you like them and maybe expand a little - what do you like about them?


Alberta typically spends her leisure time:

I love spending time with my kids and family. Spending time doing things outdoors hiking, fishing, camping. Even know I may not be able to get out there to do those things all the time. They are things I really enjoy. I love a good movie. Specially with someone I can cuddle with (yes...I'm a "cuddle bug") lol oh and lets not forget...making people laugh. I bet I could make you laugh (giggles) Nothing in your profile makes me even remotely believe that last statement.


The last book Alberta read and enjoyed:

The Notebook. What is there not to like about this book. I loved it from the beginning to end. It's such a romantic story about a love that I'm sure most of us wish we could find. You are making an assumption that everyone has read the book or knows about it. How about you describe it a little and expand on what appealed to you.

Alberta's friends describe her as:

* Outgoing
* Funny
* Easy-Going
* Genuine

The running themes in your profile are military, kids and God...over and over and over again. I understand that you're passionate about those things, but it also makes you sound one-dimensional.

As a guy, there's a part of me that would also think that if I'm not a military person, I may not have a chance.

In addition to the above comments, you have a lot spelling and grammatical errors in your profile. A whole lot of people will find that to be a huge turn off and will close you out for it.

My usual disclaimer that I'm a female so the above should be taken with a grain of salt. Also, it's not a criticism of you as a person, just how your profile reads to a stranger.