ls4iu is offline ls4iu Post #1  May 29,2010, 7:04pm
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i signed up a few months ago, before the divorce was final...so i couldn't honestly say, at the time, that i was single. where do let you know that i'm divorced....i think you had asked for the date and court #. please advise!
 
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D_Lion is online now D_Lion Post #2  May 29,2010, 7:20pm
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I think you are naughty.

Ordinarily this is a good thing, but I think the powers that be frown upon this.

Now that you are, um, raring to go, have at it!
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You need to contact customer care. If you can access your account, use the help link on the page. It will list an FAQ list as well as their 800#
 
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tenderheart105 is offline tenderheart105 Post #4  May 30,2010, 6:50am
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Hi there,

I don't know why people get so bent out of shape about people dating before their divorce is absolutely final. As long you and your former spouse are officially separated and you are up front about this with the person you are dating, then I don't see a problem. It would only be a problem for me if someone did not disclose this information to me. I know that for certain internet dating sites like eHarmony, you have to be either single or officially divorced to become a member. Therefore, you would have to lie to gain access to the site. In this case, I agree that this is wrong since you would be deceiving your matches. I thought eHarmony recently made changes to their policy and will now allow people who are separated to register but I am not sure.
In general, I don't think it has to be such a big deal.
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Only reason that it is still a big deal here is the nasty habit that some people have of considering themselves separated when their spouse is in the other room lol.....

Call customer care and they should be able to help you out here, and good luck in your search!

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tenderheart105 wrote :
I don't know why people get so bent out of shape about people dating before their divorce is absolutely final. As long you and your former spouse are officially separated and you are up front about this with the person you are dating, then I don't see a problem.
I don't see people here getting upset about that, but the fact that someone lied about their marital status to join eharmony, which makes people wonder what else they lied about.

"Separated" can mean anything from having separate homes and never seeing each other, to one spouse spending the night somewhere else because they just had an argument.
 
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