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Laura8 is offline Laura8 Post #1  May 28,2010, 1:29pm
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Hi Everyone,
Well..finally. I can say that I have made it to the final stage of Guided Communication (e-mail)! And I will say it again- finally. So for those of you who are having difficulties, have faith! This is what I have done:
- tweaked my Profile, posted it also for review.
- adjusted my Preferences to what is really necessary, not what is absolutely necessary.
- left more matches open, after thinking,"Why not?"
- posted at least 2 pictures.
- complained a lot (!), on the Boards.
- sent different kinds of Open-Ended questions (light and brief).
- was patient and..
- BINGO! Answers came to my questions..
- I seem to have a lot in common with this match so I will be sending him an e-mail soon. Laura8
 
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You shouldn't have to do all that just to get to OC with someone.

If you communicate with enough matches it will happen with some of them.

Wake me when you've met someone in person!
 
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Laura8 is offline Laura8 Post #3  May 28,2010, 3:50pm
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well..that was an interesting posting..don't worry, I will not be waking you up..no information there what-so-ever..doesn't make me want to share any further insite with anyone who has been frustrated with eHarmony! Too bad..

To clarify, I did NOT do all of that for one match! These were all of the things which I have successfully done within the month of being on eHarmony!
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #4  May 28,2010, 3:56pm
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Yea laura!
That is great news. Good luck,
And please ignore the little grey cloud that sometimes likes to rain on peoples posts.
 
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thanks livenlearn!
 
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tenderheart105 is offline tenderheart105 Post #6  May 28,2010, 6:11pm
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That's great Laura!! I think you are making some people jealous!!
 
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Congrats Laura8! Now throw the bouquet over your shoulder and see who catches it. Lol
 
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You mean the advice here works??!! LOL.

Yahoo! Good luck. Keep us posted!
 
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Hi Everyone!
Thanks SO much for all of your replies! They put an even bigger smile on my face! And..yes! The advice does work! Laura
PS- Have a great holiday weekend!
 
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Laura8 wrote :
Hi Everyone!
Thanks SO much for all of your replies! They put an even bigger smile on my face! And..yes! The advice does work! Laura
PS- Have a great holiday weekend!
Way to go, Laura!
 
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