redlily is offline redlily Post #1  May 26,2010, 3:53pm
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I know that this has probably been asked multiple times, but I'm not having any luck finding the answer. How do you know if someone closes you? I had a match that sent me questions and I answered them, but they don't show up on my communicating tab. Does this mean they closed me? How would I tell with others I haven't communicated with yet?
 
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MicMan is offline MicMan Post #2  May 26,2010, 4:17pm
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In the archived tab, it will show a big button that says closed if you've been closed. Once you click that, the match will be moved into your closed tab.
 
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There is a setting on how a match that closes you is handled. The default is as MicMan describes.

If you have a missing match I would first look at your Archive tab to see if they have move to there. If you don't find them there then click on the Closed link under the Archive tab to see if they got moved directly to your Closed folder. I would also check in the New folder as there has been mention of a match that had been in communication getting moved back to the New folder. Also if you have had activity from other matches the match that you were waiting on to respond to your questions may have moved down the list in your Communicating folder so check farther down the list to see if they are there.

If they just are nowhere to be found in any of your folders I would contact Customer Care to see if they can find the match. There could have been a glitch and the match just vanished into the ether.
 
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He's not missing, he is still on my "new" tab, but I thought that once the questions started he would be moved to my communicating tab. When I clicked on him I only had the option to close the match, and no longer to archive the match so I figured that maybe that meant he had closed me. I guess this is not true though because I see that on another one that I know has not closed me thats the only option also. I guess the first one probably didn't close me. I'm new to this so I don't know what it looks like when I've been closed in the middle of communication, it just seemed different.
 
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I believe once you've started communication (sending the questions, receiving them), you can no longer archive a match. I looked on my "communicating" matches and they only have the close option as well.
 
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iamgermajesty wrote :
I believe once you've started communication (sending the questions, receiving them), you can no longer archive a match. I looked on my "communicating" matches and they only have the close option as well.
If that's true, it's dumb. I thought the Archive thing was supposed to be for putting people on the back burner, which is something you might want to do at any point in the process.

If that's not what it's for, what IS it intended for?
 
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