bendakstarkilr is offline bendakstarkilr Post #1  May 19,2010, 8:32pm
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how long does it actually take for someone to look at your Profile? I've been on this godforsaken site for a week and i have 77 matches but not one person has viewed my profile once lol, and im not a ugly man by far i assure you. so whats the deal? Is one of my settings messed maybe?
 
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AndieIsMe is offline AndieIsMe — Advice Member-Moderator Post #2  May 19,2010, 9:32pm
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Welcome to the boards! I hope you enjoy your time here and that the community can help answer your questions.

It could be your views are under the Anonymous View counter at the bottom of the Who's Viewed Me tab. It will tell you how many people have looked at your profile in the last two weeks.

FYI, I'm going to move this to the Using eHarmony board.
 
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Hi Bendakastarkilr,

Welcome to eHarmony Advice!

Have you been requesting communication of your matches and viewing them? If not, sometimes that’s all it takes to get their attention. Your photo for Advice looks great; just know that it views aren’t related to good/poor photos, because no match can see your photos unless they click on your profile first.

Another thing you could do is to edit your profile – you’ll appear on your matches’ Match Updates pages, so that’s another way to get their attention.

Often members post their profiles here for feedback, too -- so when they do view you, they will be even that much more likely to respond.

Good luck with everything!

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PS - Thanks for moving the thread, Andieisme.
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You have only been on eHarmony for a week, give it some time.

Also most of your matches are going to be non-paying members and most non-paying members are also non-active so they will never view you or close you.

You don't say if you are sending First Questions to your matches, but you should be sending First Questions to any match that you have any interest in.
 
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thank you all so much for the advice its really appreciated
 
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