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StuCo715 is offline StuCo715 Post #1  May 14,2010, 8:59am
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I am having a really dificult time with EH. I have not made it past must haves and can't stands. I'm not a bad looking guy and have alot to offer but there must be something wrong some where.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #2  May 14,2010, 9:29am
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To post your profile for review I prefer that you copy and past each section of your profile into a thread here. You can copy and paste the whole thing at once but it makes it harder to read than if you copy each section separately.

Since you are getting matches and some communication up to MHCS it would seem that you have things in your MHCS lists that are turning your matches off. A long time ago I found that having anything in my MHCS that was more than the most benign that I could find would also lead to a lot of closes as soon as I had sent my MHCS.
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #3  May 14,2010, 12:21pm
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You might want to post your MHCS here, too.

How many people have stopped responding right at that point? If it's only a few, I wouldn't worry.
 
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StuCo715 is offline StuCo715 Post #4  May 14,2010, 12:29pm
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It's only a few. The real problem is getting women to respond in the first place. It's not like I'm bad with women, I get approached at bars and do my share of approaching it's just that I can't seem to find the right girl. I'm also wondering what amount of people that I get matched with are doing the free trial and can not communicate, and is there a way to tell so I don't waste my time with those people. I would post my profile but my computer has a nasty virus and all I'm left with is my I pod.
 
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eH_Advice_Host_Renee is offline eH_Advice_Host_Renee Post #5  May 15,2010, 6:12pm

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HI StuCo715,

Sorry to hear that you can't easily copy and past your profile answers. But as Gr8Guyn2008 said, sometimes it's easier to take it one question at a time. So until the virus is fixed, why not just type in the first question with your answer and start getting some feedback?

Also, if you check out the Profile Workshops here in the Using eHarmony forum, you can see how other members have answered the various profile questions and what feedback they've received.

Lastly, spelling and/or grammar errors don't make a good first impression. So proofreading your answers is a must.

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