Where did "send final message" go?

Ouch, that's very cold.

Well, if you had seen all the posts whining about the reasons for being closed you would understand. It really was rediculous.

I suspect the OP probably doesn't care about the Close reasons, as much as he does about losing the ability to send a Final Message.

I agree with the OP in that the Final Message shouldn't have been take away.

I know there is a vocal minority here that are cold, and apparently love the new system...:
"All Closes are closes, and if I Close someone, then I had a dang good reason to do so. PERIOD!!!"

On EHarmony however, lines are not so black and white.

People are simply too hasty on Closing, which in fact EHarmony has even implicitly acknowledged with their new layout in making Closing someone a 2 step process.

This is why it shocks me that they got rid of the Final Message.
They should be encouraging communication.

Again, I think EHarmony listened to a vocal minority, and removed the option, because a few cold people didn't like that extra "Please Reconsider" message to be sent.

Seriously, is it that horrible that someone really liked you, and really hopes you might reconsider???


As a sidenote:
Do you not think we are now just going to get as many posts whining about being Closed for no reason at all?

This is why it shocks me that they got rid of the Final Message.
They should be encouraging communication.

This also surprises me too. In the back of my mind, I seem to remember hearing stories about people that used the Final Message and lived happily ever after.

Yup. I know a couple who did .

I wonder if we ever hear stories about people that used that Archive feature and lived happily ever after