Jesisi is offline Jesisi Post #1  May 6,2010, 3:12pm
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Hey Everyone,

Things are going well in my neck of the woods and I wanted to share some details that helped me meet this person that I currently like so much:

- He was a flexible match (although we could not have more in common) because I selected the option for people older than him, and he is a year younger than me.

- After a week of waiting for his responses I sent a nudge and... tada!!... He answered!

I think that many people have asked themselves these questions, how good is a flexible match, which is funny because I feel like we have more in common than my "outright" matches (Elvis Impersonators included!).

The other thing is that we get discouraged when the other people do not answer, and get a bit impatient or disappointed... He ended up telling me he liked me a lot and thought I was out of his league, so no point trying, right? I thought the same about him!!

So, tips for you that are still looking and using EH, don't give up, contact everyone, try the nudges, and hope for the best...

Share your experiences to help encourage the rest out there that are still worried about these things, and feel free to add other things to the list that have ended up working in your favor from the EH site...

Best to you all,

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D_Lion is online now D_Lion Post #2  May 6,2010, 6:13pm
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Good for you!
 
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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #3  May 7,2010, 5:16am
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Good luck Jesisi,

If things works out, maybe you can married by an Elvis impersonator.. lol
 
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tjlpd is offline tjlpd Post #4  May 7,2010, 5:34am
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That is great Jesisi. I have a second date tonight with a flex match who took a long time to respond and I took a while at the end thinking he was not interested. I really like him so far.
 
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My best matches have been Flexible Matches.

Can't say that I have had any success in sending Nudges though.
 
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