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eHarmony seems to operate on geologic time.

But then he stopped communicating as much for a few days and coincidentally closed our match in eHarmony. I found out later when we talked again that he would have chosen that he closed because we're communicating outside of eHarmony. But that functionality was no longer available. I wouldn't have had any worries if he had been able to choose that reason.

We're back on track now as it turned out he just got really busy. But during this early stage, especially for those of us trying to keep communication open with a long distance match, while we wait until we can meet face to face, little things like this can balloon into a bigger problem.

So I would like to see eHarmony put some of the close reasons back especially the one about closing because you're communicating outside of eHarmony. I think some of the other reasons were bogus and even rude though so can see why some should go.