4ppleseed is offline 4ppleseed Post #1  April 21,2010, 9:29am
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Is there anyway to see my sent messages?
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AndieIsMe is offline AndieIsMe — Advice Member-Moderator Post #2  April 21,2010, 11:54am
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On the Advice site or the eHarmony dating site?

If you mean the Advice site (this site) then no, I don't think you can see what you have sent.
 
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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #3  April 21,2010, 1:09pm
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4ppleseed wrote :
Is there anyway to see my sent messages?
Thanks.
On the eH singles site. Any communication you have with a particular match is stored on their profile.Click on E-harmony Mail : in the first columnn it will list who the sender is.

*However if this was the first message in open communication, You will not be able to see the sent message, until that match accepts the OC (open communication ) request.

On the advice site (eHA) Click messages.You should see four choices compose/ inbox/sent/trash
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Strlite85 is offline Strlite85 Post #4  December 31,2010, 8:07pm
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I tried following the instructions you someone wrote (cant remember his name, sorry!) regarding the sent mail on the eharmony site and I don't understand. Perhaps eharmony has changed the way to check sent mail since April. Either way, could someone please provider clearer instructions for me?

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-Ashlee the newbie
 
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Strlite85 wrote :
I tried following the instructions you someone wrote (cant remember his name, sorry!) regarding the sent mail on the eharmony site and I don't understand. Perhaps eharmony has changed the way to check sent mail since April. Either way, could someone please provider clearer instructions for me?

Thanks!

-Ashlee the newbie
For the eHarmony dating site:

Click on profile that you want to see what your communication with has been. Below the photo are three tabs, the right one is labeled "Mailbox", click on that tab. It will open up to show the communication progress. There will be a bar showing the four stages of communication:
1) Get to know each other
2) Must Haves & Can't Stands
3) Learn more about her (or him)
4) eHarmony mail

Depending on where you are along the process of communication the bar / stage will be blue if you are at that stage or have completed it, and gray for the stages that you have not yet gotten to. When you open the Mailbox tab it will take you to the last stage that you have gotten to.

Assuming that you have gone through all the Guided Communication stages and have begun sending e-mails to each other, if you want to review an answer in First Questions (stage 1) click on that tab in the stages progress bar. It will open up that stage communication and there will be two buttons (just text) that say Your 1st Questions and Her (His) 1st Questions. The same thing is there for the other stages.

If you are into Open Communication (eHarmony mail) then all of your e-mail will be displayed with the most recent on the top. They are displayed by subject line and who sent it. If you want to review an earlier e-mail just click on the subject line in the list and that message will open up. You can also click on the Expand All button which will open all your previous e-mails.

Hope this helps.
 
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ZakJuan is offline ZakJuan Post #6  January 1,2011, 7:44am
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what if am an unsubscribed user and received her open ended answers during the FCE, then accidentally clicked on the "begin open Communication" button before getting to read her answers! this has re-directed me to the subscription page every time i click on the mailbox tab to review her answers! i cant read all past communication with her anymore!

(i am trying to subscribe but there are issues between EH and paypal for now so it's not working but that's a different story)

Any chance i can read her open ended answers again while we still at the FCE? please? ^-^
 
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Any chance i can read her open ended answers again while we still at the FCE? please?


Not positive what a non-paying member can see as to history. Hopefully Renee or Kate (eHA admins) will chime in or another NPM.

When you say open-ended answers, you do mean stage 3 correct? OC (open communication/email) is blocked even on FCE..
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TrekRyder10 wrote :

Not positive what a non-paying member can see as to history. Hopefully Renee or Kate (eHA admins) will chime in or another NPM.

When you say open-ended answers, you do mean stage 3 correct? OC (open communication/email) is blocked even on FCE..
Yes i mean stage 3, the open ended questions stage. I asked, she replied, while i began reading i accidentally hit "begin open comm' and now am stuck with the subscription page every time i try to see her mailbox tab.

Even subscribing is not working!!
"We cannot process your PayPal request at this time. Please select a
different payment method.."
I hope i can be allowed to read her answers one last time before the FCE is over.
 
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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #9  January 1,2011, 8:27am
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Yes i mean stage 3, the open ended questions stage. I asked, she replied, while i began reading i accidentally hit "begin open comm' and now am stuck with the subscription page every time i try to see her mailbox tab.
Sounds like you triggered a road block..

wrote :
Even subscribing is not working!!
"We cannot process your PayPal request at this time. Please select a
different payment method.."
I hope i can be allowed to read her answers one last time before the FCE is over.
Can you use a credit card?

Yeah.. I hope so too.. best of luck.
 
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