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uniquegurl is offline uniquegurl Post #1  April 10,2010, 2:17pm
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edwardtx is offline edwardtx Post #2  April 10,2010, 2:44pm
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What's sad is posting someone elses profile for ridicule
 
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cp30 is offline cp30 Post #3  April 10,2010, 2:50pm

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log haul! Those are fun! Maybe he wants to take you to a lumberjack contest in Minnesota!!

lol

close...

hopefully he gets it after a few bad experiences and heals and ...maybe comes here for advice. I hope he leaves his profile as it is though for atleast a few months as a warning for all who dare to become involved.
 
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edwardtx wrote :
What's sad is posting someone elses profile for ridicule

Yep.

Bet she falls for some fast-talking player, and then comes to complain about that, too.

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To the OP,

Emotional hurts heal. Waiting for a partner to heal may be a risk, but waiting, alone, for perfection, is an interesting concept.
 
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Mr79percent is offline Mr79percent Post #5  April 10,2010, 3:02pm
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Whenever I get a woman's profile that is so untactful...I'm tempted to sent a fast track mail to correct them. Kind of like seeing a guy walking about with their zipper down by accident.

So far I have resisted the urge.
 
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angryromancegrrl is offline angryromancegrrl Post #6  April 10,2010, 3:28pm

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Honestly, it's just ...sad. He's obviously not ready to date yet but hasn't figured that out . This is one I would be temped to fasttrack and offer unsolicited advice that he might want to take time out to let himself heal. Not that people listen but he just sounds so lost.
 
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tenderheart105 is offline tenderheart105 Post #7  April 10,2010, 3:54pm
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It wouldn't bother me to see this in someone's profile. He is just being honest. So many women say they are looking for honesty in a relationship but also seem to be afraid of it. He sounds like he is looking for a long term committment, thought he found it at one point, got hurt, and is now looking once again. Many of us have been there.
 
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cp30 is offline cp30 Post #8  April 10,2010, 3:59pm

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it would be just as honest to say "I like the outdoors and spending time with my friends and family" and then maybe mentioning later that he was in a long term relationship and is still healing...

he is trying to get a date, right? I like the fast track idea.
 
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He didn't post his profile for advice, he posted it to find matches.

If you aren't interested, close him, but don't put him up for ridicule, nor offer advice where it has not been solicited. What makes any of us any better than he is that we should just be handing out advice just because of how we might interpret/misinterpret a profile?

Everyone has his/her own way of healing. If he wanted advice, he'd have posted on eHarmony Advice on his own. Since he posted on eHarmony, then how about leaving the guy alone?
 
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brneyedangel wrote :
He didn't post his profile for advice, he posted it to find matches.

If you aren't interested, close him, but don't put him up for ridicule, nor offer advice where it has not been solicited. What makes any of us any better than he is that we should just be handing out advice just because of how we might interpret/misinterpret a profile?

Everyone has his/her own way of healing. If he wanted advice, he'd have posted on eHarmony Advice on his own. Since he posted on eHarmony, then how about leaving the guy alone?
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