Irishlass68 is offline Irishlass68 Post #1  April 5,2010, 9:05pm
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The one thing Ryan is most passionate about: I'm passionate about music. Nothing has the power to change my mood more than some good music. Raising my son right is something else thats extremely important to me. Finally I am very passionate in working with mentally ill people and helping them realize thier goals and overcome thier obstacles.


The most important thing Ryan is looking for in a person is: sense of humor




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Occupation:Behavioral Health Age:41Height:5' 6"Wants Kids:Maybe
Ethnicity:White, non-HispanicReligion:Christian Drinks:About once a weekSmokes:Many times a day


In my own words

The most influential person in Ryan's life has been:

My older brother. He has such an easygoing attitude about life. He is accepting of most people. He is hilariously funny and very smart. He's always been one of my biggest cheerleaders.


The three things which Ryan is most thankful for:
  • My son. Its very important to me that whomever I date accepts my son as much as they accept me.
  • My friends. I will always make time for my friends regardless of what else I have going on in my life.
  • My family. They have helped me through some very difficult times in my life and they have always had faith in me.
Three of Ryan's best life-skills are:
  • Finding new adventures and unique experiences
  • Using humor to make friends laugh
  • Raising and/or caring for children

The one thing Ryan wishes MORE people would notice about her is:

my intelligence


The things Ryan can't live without are:
  • my cell phone
  • my computer
  • my car
  • coffee
  • chocolate

The first thing people notice about Ryan is:

my sense of humor


Some additional information Ryan wanted you to know is:

Being a single working mom keeps me very busy but I can always make time for the people in my life that matter.


My interests

Ryan typically spends her leisure time:

I like going to movies, going for walks, doing "kid" things with my son like going to the zoo, the park or rollerskating. I love music and with that I like, dancing, seeing live bands and going to to concerts. I also enjoy going out to eat. I'm always up for trying new things.

The last book Ryan read and enjoyed:

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. I loved the whole series. Its a great escape to read things like that.


According to my friends:

Ryan's friends describe her as:
  • Dependable
  • Funny
  • Loyal
  • Caring

One thing that only Ryan's best friends know is:

Thats between my best friends and I
 
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TrekRyder10 is offline TrekRyder10 Post #2  April 6,2010, 1:54pm
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Irishlass68 wrote :
The one thing is most passionate about: I'm passionate about music. Nothing has the power to change my mood more than some good music. Raising my son right is something else thats extremely important to me. Finally I am very passionate in working with mentally ill people and helping them realize thier goals and overcome thier obstacles.
This is okay, could use a little rewording.
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The most important thing Ryan is looking for in a person is sense of humor
I would add a few more things here, or expand on what type of humor you enjoy.

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The most influential person in Ryan's life has been:
My older brother. He has such an easygoing attitude about life. He is accepting of most people. He is hilariously funny and very smart. He's always been one of my biggest cheerleaders.
Good
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The three thing which Ryan is most thank for
My son. Its very important to me that whomever I date accepts my son as much as they accept me.My friends. I will always make time for my friends regardless of what else I have going on in my life.
My family. They have helped me through some very difficult times in my life and they have always had faith in me
This is good.. I like how you added a little something to these.

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The one thing Ryan wishes more people would notice about her is My intelligence
That's it? need more than that.. expand

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The things Ryan can't live without
my cell phone
my computer
my car
coffee
chocolate
the first three are cliche' At least expand them like you did with the others short answers.

Chocolate: in any shape or form
My computer: How else would I pay my bills
My phone.. No it's not attached to my ear!

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The first thing people notice about Ryan is :my sense of humor
You mention humor three times in your profile.Yet, there is none anywhere in it? So please add something humorous anywhere!
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Some addtional information:being a single working mom keeps me very busy but I can always make time for the people in my life that matter.
We know being a single mom keeps you busy. Tell me something about you..
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Ryan Typically spend her leisure time:I like going to movies, going for walks, doing "kid" things with my son like going to the zoo, the park or rollerskating. I love music and with that I like, dancing, seeing live bands and going to to concerts. I also enjoy going out to eat. I'm always up for trying new things.
This is okay.. not great but okay
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The last book Ryan read: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. I loved the whole series. Its a great escape to read things like that.
good
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One thing that only Ryan's best friends know is:
Cop out answer. but I will let you off the hook. As this question is going away.. EH is removing it b/c 90% of members say the same thing!

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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #3  April 6,2010, 2:03pm
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I like your profile.
Is your brother single?
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #4  April 6,2010, 3:34pm
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Glad to hear they're removing that question, since it's lame.
 
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DancingFool is offline DancingFool Post #5  April 6,2010, 3:41pm
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I would find your statements about your son a bit heavy handed and therefore intimidating. You are really overstating the obvious that your child is important to you and of course anyone who enters into a relationship with you would have to take him as a package deal. You really don't need to pound this point quite so heavily - it's more or less common sense. I would soften that and reduce some of the references to him. I'm certain there are other aspects of you life that you can bring into your profile as well.
 
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angryromancegrrl is offline angryromancegrrl Post #6  April 6,2010, 8:38pm

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I have to agree that mentioning your son approx 4 times (and quite intensly) was a bit much. I understand--you're a mom--but it seems so pervasive that if I was a guy, I'd feel that there was no chance of me having a place of importance in your life. I'd take it back a notch. And as far as humor--yes..inroduce some!
 
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Irishlass68 is offline Irishlass68 Post #7  April 6,2010, 9:43pm
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Ok all very sound advice. I'll make some changes. Oh and btw my brother is single
 
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