Found my match on the internet in HIS WEDDING PICTURES


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dermit310 is offline dermit310 Post #1  April 4,2010, 6:09pm
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Okay...

Ummm... Either my match got divorced within the last two years, or HE'S FREAKIN MARRIED! I even found his "wife" on facebook. This is so wrong! I found wedding pictures and everything!

I guess I shouldn't do anything... or should I?

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You mean a marriage which occured two years ago?

If there is nothing to contradict what he's told you, you could ask about it.

If it's in conflict with anything he's said, at such an early stage, I'd just walk.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
You mean a marriage which occured two years ago?

If there is nothing to contradict what he's told you, you could ask about it.

If it's in conflict with anything he's said, at such an early stage, I'd just walk.
The photos are from October 2008, so he'd have to have gotten divorced within the last year or so...

I don't know... If I were the wife, I'd want to know.
 
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The photos are from October 2008, so he'd have to have gotten divorced within the last year or so...

I don't know... If I were the wife, I'd want to know.
Maybe so, but in the end, what good is it actually going to do you? Besides, what if you're wrong? If you met him on eH, I'd just report him if you have suspicions about him and move on.
Last edited by brneyedangel; April 4,2010 at 6:54pm. Reason: Report him after talking with him and determining he is, in fact, married, of course. Can't believe I forgot that part!
 
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dermit310 wrote :
I guess I shouldn't do anything... or should I?
I assume you are in OC with this match?

Why don't you just ask him if he's been married.

A yes response.. clears the air

A no response...Well imo it's up to you whether or not to report him and save the next woman from the headache.
 
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dermit310 wrote :
Okay...

Ummm... Either my match got divorced within the last two years, or HE'S FREAKIN MARRIED! I even found his "wife" on facebook. This is so wrong! I found wedding pictures and everything!

I guess I shouldn't do anything... or should I?

Sketchyy!
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The photos are from October 2008, so he'd have to have gotten divorced within the last year or so...

I don't know... If I were the wife, I'd want to know.
A little confused here.

Is this an eHarmony match? Is the wedding photo on his eHarmony profile or did you find it on his Facebook? Have you communicated with this match in any way via eHarmony yet? Are you sure it is HIS wedding photo?

If this is an eHarmony match and you suspect that he is in fact married then you should report this to eHarmony.
 
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For all you know he was married and got it annulled two months later or is in fact divorced. You are jumping to some big conclusions without asking him for real information. EH does match you with people who are divorced.....
 
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Need more information.

How do you know his name, presumably first and last?
How do you know it is him, and not some other guy with the same name?
How did you find the "wife" on FaceBook?

I am not saying you didn't find a genuine bad apple here, but without more information, we simply don't know enough of the story to either be appalled or what.
 
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I'm also curious how you know it's the same person- are you going by looks or name or what?
 
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dermit310 is offline dermit310 Post #10  April 5,2010, 1:37pm
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I'm also curious how you know it's the same person- are you going by looks or name or what?
It's the same exact guy. The woman he married still has his last name on facebook. And I found him because he has a really uncommon name.

You can find anyone if you try hard enough.

Either way, I'm not going to worry about it. It's better to not get involved.
 
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