storyteller123 is offline storyteller123 Post #1  March 31,2010, 4:48pm
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I know, I know, it's a done deal and nothing to look back on but still...

I requested a photo but still initiated GC. He accepted. Got to the essay questions. I answered mine explaining why I especially needed to see a picture (being Deaf I can't speech read (lip read) someone with a bushy beard). Today I saw he posted pictures and within a half hour he closed me with the reason, "I'm pursuing another relationship."

That's just a little not nice.
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storyteller123 wrote :
I know, I know, it's a done deal and nothing to look back on but still...

I requested a photo but still initiated GC. He accepted. Got to the essay questions. I answered mine explaining why I especially needed to see a picture (being Deaf I can't speech read (lip read) someone with a bushy beard). Today I saw he posted pictures and within a half hour he closed me with the reason, "I'm pursuing another relationship."

That's just a little not nice.
On the bright side at least he didn't waste any more of your time.
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so....what did you think of the pictures?
 
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newbie40something wrote :
so....what did you think of the pictures?
I don't consider myself beautiful (mostly I'm complimented on my smile) so I try not to judge others. He looked normal and decent and definitely speech readable.

I guess it felt like he put up his pictures in response to my request, then closed, when in actuality he probably put them up in response to many other requests.

I'm just on this until my membership expires in June. I'm really tired and frustrated with all these sites.
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I agree his close was rude. I wouldn't worry about it. He let you go before you met and it is probably a blessing in disguise.
 
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