smurd11 is offline smurd11 Post #1  March 30,2010, 11:17pm
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I have been communicating with a match outside of eHarmony via email. We went through guided communication in eHarmony then decided to continue communicating through email. My question is, how long do people generally wait before offering phone calls or setting up a meeting? Also, she is not a member, which is one of the reasons we're communicating outside of eHarmony. We live pretty far away from each other too, so a lunch date would kind of be out of the question. I'm pretty knew to this and would appreciate any advice. Thanks.
 
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If you are looking for a pen pal, keep e-mailing, if for a date, call her!
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #3  March 31,2010, 8:13am
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If you are looking for a pen pal, keep e-mailing, if for a date, call her!
Yup, get the number and call. Find out if your both wasting time or not. Good luck.
 
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