AndieIsMe is offline AndieIsMeAdvice Member-Moderator Post #1  January 21,2010, 7:04pm
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I've receive a few photo nudges. But lately, with the new upgrades to eH or maybe because some of the people are viewing my profile anonymously, I can't tell who is requesting my photos sometimes.

There might be 2, 3 or even more "Jason", "Mike" or "David" listed from the same city.

I haven't seen the little icon that says Photo Nudge next to their name in a while. Any way to bring it back? Am I looking in the wrong place?
 
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Wonderwoman402 is offline Wonderwoman402 Post #2  January 21,2010, 7:14pm
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Why not just post your photo(s) instead of worrying about the nudges?
 
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Why not just post your photo(s) instead of worrying about the nudges?
It's my job. Kinda funny, but because I'm always out at businesses I don't want to be recognized. It's happened before. Very awkward when the guy you are trying to sell advertising to (or one of his employees) brings up something from your profile. Kinda kills the sale.
 
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So wait, you'll post your picture on a public message board that's accessible to anyone in the world, but you won't post your picture to an online dating site where only people matched to you can find you?
 
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99.9% of my photo nudges to women go unheeded. Probably free weekenders. No worries tho, they just go in the close bin.
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Have yet to have someone mention my forum posts or blog entries. Silly isn't it? I don't mind having myself out there. But in my small town, when someone shows up in your e-mail box with their details listed and a photo, it's pretty obvious who it is, and it does give it a different meaning than running across a post on a forum. I run into guys who show up on my match list all the time. Sometimes it's awkward, sometimes it's not. But I'm usually the only one who knows (or at least it seems that way) I don't think there are many people from my area on this particular forum. If there are, please, message me.

Besides, my thread isn't about me hiding my photo. It's about the nudge not showing up.
 
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I don't think people should be matched to anyone until they've posted a photo.

Otherwise it's a complete waste of the other person's time.
 
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what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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99.9% of my photo nudges to women go unheeded. Probably free weekenders. No worries tho, they just go in the close bin.

Me too, well men do this, but otherwise it's exactly the same with me.
 
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AndieIsMe wrote :
Have yet to have someone mention my forum posts or blog entries. Silly isn't it? I don't mind having myself out there. But in my small town, when someone shows up in your e-mail box with their details listed and a photo, it's pretty obvious who it is, and it does give it a different meaning than running across a post on a forum. I run into guys who show up on my match list all the time. Sometimes it's awkward, sometimes it's not. But I'm usually the only one who knows (or at least it seems that way) I don't think there are many people from my area on this particular forum. If there are, please, message me.

Besides, my thread isn't about me hiding my photo. It's about the nudge not showing up.
I work in a small town in an incredibly high profile job and I have no problems at all with the fact my photos are online. The fact that I've tried online dating has even been mentioned on the air. It seems like you're afraid of people judging you for online dating or something.
 
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