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shoopthedoop is offline shoopthedoop Post #1  November 11,2009, 6:30pm
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Got an eH match about a week and a half ago.

Proceeded to OC and she said she preferred to talk on the phone. On Sunday we spoke and arranged to meet for lunch today.

Got a message that she was sick and had to cancel.

Just saw that she closed me for 'other'.

Not quite sure what happened, but it seemed a little odd. Oh well...
 
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D_Lion is online now D_Lion Post #2  November 11,2009, 6:33pm
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The good news is that you did not pay to learn what she is like.

Buy yourself a case of beer and count your blessings.
 
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nightling is offline nightling Post #3  November 11,2009, 6:33pm
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aww shoop. That is disappointing.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
The good news is that you did not pay to learn what she is like.

Buy yourself a case of beer and count your blessings.
Yeah, that was an odd one for sure.

I guess her flaking before the first date was the best timing possible.
 
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This happened to one of my friends dating in the VA area. No idea what that is about. Maybe the sick was just an excuse.
 
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shoopthedoop wrote :
Got an eH match about a week and a half ago.

Proceeded to OC and she said she preferred to talk on the phone. On Sunday we spoke and arranged to meet for lunch today.

Got a message that she was sick and had to cancel.

Just saw that she closed me for 'other'.

Not quite sure what happened, but it seemed a little odd. Oh well...
Maybe she was sick of dating?
 
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I have talked to guys on the phone and not felt any chemistry...or they said something off or maybe had a weird laugh. What she should of done is emailed you and told you she was not interested. But, seriously even voices, laughs, sense of humor those things come off on the phone. She just didn't feel it. Someone else will.
 
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gomez is offline gomez Post #8  November 12,2009, 10:17am
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Don't worry about it. There are plenty of women out there. You will find the right one.
 
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shoopthedoop is offline shoopthedoop Post #9  November 12,2009, 10:34am
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I have talked to guys on the phone and not felt any chemistry...or they said something off or maybe had a weird laugh. What she should of done is emailed you and told you she was not interested. But, seriously even voices, laughs, sense of humor those things come off on the phone. She just didn't feel it. Someone else will.
I usually don't talk on the phone and just to proceed to an IRL meeting.

I guess I thought the phone call went well. If she was getting a bad vibe off it, why not put off a meeting to a little later/no definite date. Oh well - I've got a feeling the frog is right on this one.

Thanks for the support everybody!
 
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Lilycat is offline Lilycat Post #10  November 12,2009, 10:41am
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Looks like you dodged a bullet there lol.
I find it is easier when people weed themselves out, saves you the trouble.

No worries, you will meet lots of decent people on your journey - they are out there.

Keep smiling!

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