Homer231 is offline Homer231 Post #1  November 9,2009, 10:19am
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Can anyone offer some insight. On EH, I have noticed some matches have viewed my profile. I initiated communication with ones I'm interested in, and then no response.

However, the confusing part is, they have not closed me out either. I thought it would be pretty simple. You view a profile and it's either a "Yea" or "Nay." If they were not interested they would simply just close me out...

Just FYI...I give matches up to (2) weeks, no response then I just close them out myself.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #2  November 9,2009, 10:22am

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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I think that's what being put 'on hold' is all about. Them not saying yay or nay, when you close them down you can specify this as your reason. It is a tad ignorant but the world of eH can be a bit like that.
 
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DancingFool is offline DancingFool Post #3  November 9,2009, 10:24am
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Either they are not subscribers, just looking or debating whether to join, or you have fallen into the "maybe" pile.
 
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nightling is offline nightling Post #4  November 9,2009, 10:26am
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Homer231 wrote :
Can anyone offer some insight. On EH, I have noticed some matches have viewed my profile. I initiated communication with ones I'm interested in, and then no response.

However, the confusing part is, they have not closed me out either. I thought it would be pretty simple. You view a profile and it's either a "Yea" or "Nay." If they were not interested they would simply just close me out...

Just FYI...I give matches up to (2) weeks, no response then I just close them out myself.
Or they might not quite understand how the site works. I think a first couple of times I didn't send my must haves right away b/c I thought it was their turn since I had just answered something or read something. Then it dawned on me that this was probably wrong and I had left them sitting a while.
 
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