Why no Personality Profile from my match?


Reply
  • Page 3 of 3
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
thefastcat is offline thefastcat Post #21  November 9,2009, 12:51pm
thefastcat's Avatar

Quick Study

Joined: Nov 2009

Denver

Posts: 75

See profile

well I know personally that the first thing my personality profile states is "CONSISTENTLY TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF" . Initially I was ashamed of this because it made me feel like a bad person. But then I kind of remembered my last relationship ended with my ex being upset that I didn't need a lot of support and care from her (while she wanted and expected it from me). Then it came as a sigh of relief that I might be able to not have to go through that again in the future if I just broadcast this aspect of who I am. So now I enabled my personality to be seen by everyone. Whether or not it is what they want to see nevertheless it is who I am. Better to honest with them (and myself) then try to avoid it because I think they won't like it.

however I can see how some people might have concerns that people would be quick to irrationally judge or project personality tenancies based on the personality profile. To that I would say you are probably better off not being with them because it doesn't really sound like they are interested in who you are.
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply
  • Page 3 of 3
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3


Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
Do You Ever Tweak Your Profile For A Particular Match? DeBrown Using eHarmony 24 January 17,2010 2:17pm
What do you do when your looks and your personality don't quite match up? peppermint4209 Ask a Dating Expert 7 November 12,2009 8:46pm
Personality profile re-take? tja0421 Using eHarmony 6 October 26,2009 5:07pm
Can I re-take the personality profile? proverbdoll Using eHarmony 1 August 29,2009 5:33pm

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Absolutely not. I have no idea why allowing gays to marry would affect anyone's lives, unless they're sexually insecure about themselves.” –  sun73

Join the “Did our President give up the election for a single issue?” discussion

“I learned that the woman's communication style has to fit mine or else it won't work.” –  sun73

Join the “Why do 40 yr olds still play games?” discussion

“Here's where to email if you think a match might be a fraud: matchconcerns@eharmony.com . Tell them the match's name and location so they can find them. If what's making you suspicious is an email ... ” –  Simplicity-2012

Join the “Match from another country...is he a "fraud"?” discussion

“I know you clarified you just want a general opinion on when people bring this subject up, but I'm going to give you both that and also what I believe you should do. The general idea most of the ... ” –  Herkemer

Join the “When is it time to discuss your position on having kids?” discussion

“And that's a very valid point. I get the feeling that eHarmony is keeping their price high to show they they are not cheap and therefore, their members are serious.It seems to me that combining the ... ” –  MicMan

Join the “Free Communication Weekend” discussion

“How long have you all been on EH? Thanks for the advice. I signed on in late April 2012 but have been on other dating sites in the past.” –  Simplicity-2012

Join the “New Here” discussion

“The only one that bothers me is the "they weren't his kids so meh ..." But there could be a whole world of story behind that. Like "she dumped me and it was painful and I hated losing the kids in ... ” –  Simplicity-2012

Join the “Yellow flags...To Proceed or not to proceed, that is the question?” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 2:36pm.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0