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I haven't seen any matches with multiple hair colors in their pictures. But I gotta say, there's something really appealing about a match who includes a picture with her hair and dress really casual, and another where she's all dolled up. Captions help too.
- November 7th, 2009, 12:14 pm
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
You are correct and this goes to the heart of my question / confusion. If there were captions with dates of when the photos were taken then I would have some idea of if she is someone who changes her hair style and color every few weeks or if these are photos that represent a year or two of time.
I agree about the photo captions; if they are all within the last year, that's one thing, but if they cover a much longer period of time, it's best to add dates to them. (It does give you something to ask her about if you get to OC, though!)

Nonetheless, I think you can assume that she will be changing her look again (probably sooner rather than later) -- and her next look may be similar to one of the ones in the photos or something completely different. For some women, hair is almost like a fashion accessory and they get bored with keeping the same look for very long (just as one might keep up with changes in clothing fashions). If we don't change our look periodically, then we run the risk of looking dated and older than we are, so you can expect that most women will revamp her appearance every now and then.
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